To preface this we were at a good friend’s house that we’ve known for years. He was hosting a party, this one a little bigger than usual and there were some people that I didn’t know there that attended.
Everything was going well and we were all having a good time. Me and my gf were planning on spending the night there in a spare room as we were both drinking and not planning on driving. All that comes after happened after the party was over and only those who weren’t driving home were there.
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the party was ending and it was around 2:30 am and everyone still there was heavily drunk and tired
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I ask my gf if she was ready to go to bed as it’s late and I know that she also has work early the next morning
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the other attendees there agree with me and say we should all go to sleep. My gf was already getting sleepy so I scoop her up to help her to bed
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on the way to bed she pushed off me saying she’s not ready to go to sleep and that she wants to watch a movie with everyone before bed which I reluctantly agree to
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we start up a movie in my friends room and it’s me, her, and 2 of my friends in there watching
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by 3:00 am I’m barely fighting off sleep and need to go to bed. I ask her again if she’s ready and tell her to please come to bed as I know yet again she’s going to have to be up early for work
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she again declines and insists I “go lay down” and “I won’t keep you up” and “I’ll be there in a few minutes don’t worry”
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I say ok I’ll go set up the room for us and get our stuff ready for bed, give her a kiss and exit the room to get ready to sleep
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right as I exit the room as I’m filling up my water bottle in the kitchen I hear weird giggling and laughing from my gf in the room. And some weird comments I don’t want to get in to
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hearing that already upset me but I decided not to make a scene so I brushed it off for now and decided we’d have a talk once she came to bed “in a few minutes”
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I go lay down and I realized an hour has gone by and she is still not out of the room and I get
a little worried and decide to go check on her -
I find her dead asleep in bed with another man cuddling and getting fondled by him
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trying to keep my cool I try and awake her and ask her to please stand up and look at me and that I need to talk to her right now
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she mumbles in protest barely awake still trying to cuddle with this man and so I gently scoop her up and help her stand on her feet so she could look at me
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I ask her if we could please go outside so we can talk as I am currently so devastated by what I have heard and now seen
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she looks me in the eyes like she hates me and says she doesn’t want to go to bed yet again
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she pushes me off her and I watch her crawl back into the same bed and cuddle up with the guy that was previously fondling her
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I stand there broken and absolutely crushed watching her do this. Absolutely lost about what to do I got in my car and drove away back to our house that night
I’m so lost and broken after witnessing this I feel like it’s not even real. Before this she’s been the most loving and sweet person I’ve ever met and I loved her with all my heart. I can’t even look at her right now. We’ve been dating almost a year and currently live together. I’m so lost on what to do and I feel so betrayed and defeated.
Next morning she says she doesn’t remember any of it and can’t believe she would be capable of doing something so vile and despicable towards me. She says she wants to fix it and is pleading with me. I just can’t unsee what I saw.
tl;dr: I waited for my gf to come to bed after a night of drinking but I awoke to her not being there. I went to go find her only to see her sleeping with another man. When awaking her and helping her get up she pushes me away to go back to sleep and cuddle with the other man.
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