So let me start how this happened, I am a part of this community, so we had a meet up and there were about 13 people around two girls and rest of them were boys so we went on a bike ride. Everyone has their vehicles, but this girl I’m talking about came with another guy, we met at a point, and when she removed her helmet and she was pretty cute, but I thought yeah, she must be with her boyfriend, so I had no interest in her, but yeah, she was cute.
Now the ride started, and we went to a place. We played some games like paintball and land zorbing so during one game in which I was playing and she was not, she was just recording video. She came in between, and she hit me and she fell on the Ground. She was in pain and we all checked her arm. It was paining a lot. We asked her to move that she was not able to as she was in shock, but after sometime it was starting to feel better. I said sorry to her and was feeling bad about what I did, but she said no. It’s not your fault. It was her fault that she came in between the game.
Now the real story starts when we go home. I ask her in the community group only that how she’s doing. So she said she went to the doctor and got a POP plaster on her arm and she has to wear it for one month. I was sad, and then I again said her sorry, and she was like okay. It was not my fault.
Few days goes by and I was just wondering how she is, so. I found her Instagram and texted her and ask her about her health. How she is. She said she’s in her hometown with her parents and for one month, she will be staying with them now we started talking from there. She showed very good interest. She really like my nature there she told me and everything soon we started talking daily started flirting also, but one thing was that she never messaged me first but if I don’t message for 2-3 days, then she will taunt me why you didn’t message me something like that, and she keeps saying me that we will meet once we are back once I am from back, we will meet, and I was really happy that, yeah, she is very interested, but one thing I am not sure like why she never text me first. He shows full interest when I text her and even try to continue to conversation but never text me first and she’s also excited to meet me when she is back. She always mention this that we will do these things when we meet, we will go there. We will do this. Also, she said he has her wall up. She will open up when we will meet. You will see the real me when we will meet after that
I need some advice, Keep my hopes high is she talking to some other guy also that is fine, but I don’t want to be just friends. It’s pretty clear from my side that I am interested in her, but I am not sure about her.
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She is also 25 sorry for the mistake
WTF is human football?
Okay, Neat story.
Just ask her.. “Was that your brother that you came with?”
Then go from there…