me(20) and my gf(18) have been together for a year now and she has yet to do anything with her life. when we started dating she moved in with me in jax fl and i had a good job. she had dropped out of hs and i was trying to steer her back in the right direction and told her to either go back to school or get your GED. she said she will but have yet to see her try. she had multiple people saying they would support her in doing so but still nothing till this day.
we moved from that apt to a house with her sisters in NSB fl. i was the one with the job and she didn’t. we had to start paying rent soon and we couldn’t afford it. she refused to get a job and she didn’t have her license either. i tried to help her with both but she just couldn’t be bothered by it. Now we are in Joplin MO with her mom and again we have to pay rent soon but this time i can’t find a job and she STILL has none of the things we ALL tried to help her do.
I honestly can’t do it anymore she’s just too out of touch with reality. but i can’t just leave because i have nowhere else to go. ik it’s my fault for not leaving earlier but i tried to help and now i’m going down for it and i don’t think it’s fair. i need advice or help.
tl;dr gf is not doing anything with her life and is dragging me down with her.