Me(42) I’m trying to understand, and may be because I’m out of touch with the way meeting people now days works. But why when meeting people women(35-40) do I find that there always some excuse add to why they need money. Now I’m all for supporting my partner/gf/wife but these are women I just met. Is there something I’m missing or is this just how it is now? If so wow. What do you think.
Now I’m all for paying for dates, dinner, gifts things that men use to gain the attention of a female. But these women have been straight to the point of saying I used to work but now can’t find work. I know there are jobs out there all you have to do is look. But then they have an iPhone, expensive purses and so forth. Trust me it’s a turn of when a women does it. Are there no strong willed women any more? Or have they gone the way of” get what I can get” and leave attitude.
TL:DR am I wing for thinking this or is this the way women are now days.
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Lol what? Where are you dating that you’re meeting women in their 30s and 40s who don’t work?
As a 42F I have the opposite problem – they don’t seem to like I outearn them. I would NEVER expect money from a guy – I’d be really uncomfortable if offered and definitely decline. Who are you dating? What are you attracting?
Are you by chance a pretty boy who attracts really beautiful women who are used to getting by on their looks?
Maybe internet enables toxic or stupid attitudes percolating through society on all fronts, eg having to be 6”2 etc and in this case baddies getting theirs. In the old days this would have been called out but nowadays you can find your tribe that normalises shitty tudes and go from there