Growing up I always thought boys/men didn’t care about stuff. And for some it’s true. Sometimes they tell you stuff about other people and you ask for details. Only for them to reveal they never asked any follow up questions.
But being at the age I’m at now (almost 30) I learned that’s only a small percentage of men. Most of them are sooo messy and talk so much shit!!! And it’s mostly about women.
And maybe it’s because I’m chronically online and come across so many stories about women being done so dirty by men. (Myself included). And to hear that they laugh about all the mean, diabolical things they’ve done to girls/women with their friends. Or laugh about what women wear or post online. It’s been eye opening.
Obviously women talk too. But I swear the gossip sessions I’ve had were not as bad as those I’ve heard from some men.
After learning how most men really talk about women I can confidently say they notice things that I never did, or even cared to notice.
Not trying to shit on men at all. But learning this has made me feel a bit odd and awkward. I can only imagine the things that have been said about me and I was completely unaware or under the impression that they wouldn’t notice.
Maybe I learned this too late in life.
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Think you’re using your selective bias here to make the claim men gossip more than women, but it is true that people, regardless of gender, gossip. Trying to say who does it more is silly, they both do.
you must be joking. this is, indeed, a wild take. well done.
i anecdotally agree, i know things about friends of friends of friends even though i never met them
Ah the classic cherry picking
you’re taking what you’ve heard online (as you stated yourself that you are chronically online)
and using that as “support” for your unpopular opinion
when in fact statistically and even proven, women gossip more on average than men.
that doesnt mean men DONT gossip, but your opinion is… just wrong hence not an opinion but just a wrong take
Gender war bullshit on my reddit timeline.
send the nuke
Honestly every human gossips.
Maybe you just need to learn about… life
What! Why? What have you heard?
Maybe it’s just the guys you surround yourself with?