A bit of background. I live with my bf, his dad, his fiance, and their roommate. Their roommate is a man. This past week, bf’s dad and his fiance haven’t been home. At home it’s just been me, my bf and the roommate. So, there’s 3 bathrooms in the house, the 1 in the master bedroom (bf’a dad/fiance sleep in there) the 2nd upstairs, and the 3rd one is downstairs. The 1 upstairs is more like a communal bathroom of sorts, and the one downstairs is shared by my bf and the roommate. No one else in the house will use the one downstairs as it’s pretty gross in there. Soo, the issue. Since bf’s dad and fiance haven’t been home, roommate has been using the bathroom upstairs, that’s not really an issue except he’s messy….he pisses on the toilet seat and doesn’t clean it….its disgusting….and it really bothers me, like why can’t he just either go use the bathroom that’s already gross downstairs and make it more gross or just clean up his messes. He’s a grown man! I also came home after being out for awhile, didn’t think before I sat down on the toilet and I ended up sitting on his pee….ugh…so gross.
Edit to add: This isn’t an issue when the others are home, it only happens when they’re not here. So either he’s cleaning up after himself when they’re home, or he’s using the bathroom downstairs.