Was too focused on work to build a better future for us instead of focusing on the now. But after reflecting and the way things panned out for me outside of my love life I will never regret it. But things could’ve been different but we here now
I can’t say I ever have. If she “genuinely cared for me” we would have stayed together.
I’ve never met a woman that wasn’t more attached to something or another more than me,- money, status, ego, staying in their sickness, whatever. If I meet a woman that ever genuinely cares for me, I’d be all in though. Whatever she wants.
Started dating a really great woman right after a VERY traumatic breakup from my ex-fiancé. I had no business starting to date again, but I did it anyway. I stupidly used this great woman as a crutch to escape my healing process. It blew up in my face and I really hurt her. I feel terrible for it. Therapy has helped a lot and I eventually got over the trauma, but not before I ran this poor woman’s heart over with a steamroller due to my rage and anger towards my ex.
I was self-centered and depressed. I isolated myself from everyone. She didn’t give up. I didn’t deserve her. I grew up some, sorted out my shit. Reached out to apologize for everything, but she moved on. She waited long after things ended too. I hope she’s happy.
We weren’t to the point of calling it a romantic “love” but it’s truly the closest I have ever been and I know that she was very interested at a point too.
My own mental health, where I am in life as a result, my inability to overcome enough issues soon enough… all of it added up to me being too insecure to ever take enough risk to make it happen. Only too late did I realize how much she really had been interested, despite these things… She has moved on. I understand, but it still hurts.
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You mean my mother? She’s still around
I didn’t allow her to monkey branch to me from her marriage. I wanted her to do it on her own.
She was murdered
By being a fucking loser in my 20s.
By not being sure if they really cared or loved me
By finding out she genuinely really didn’t care.
Was too focused on work to build a better future for us instead of focusing on the now. But after reflecting and the way things panned out for me outside of my love life I will never regret it. But things could’ve been different but we here now
She died from Cancer
Haven’t found one other than my mom
I can’t say I ever have. If she “genuinely cared for me” we would have stayed together.
I’ve never met a woman that wasn’t more attached to something or another more than me,- money, status, ego, staying in their sickness, whatever. If I meet a woman that ever genuinely cares for me, I’d be all in though. Whatever she wants.
I rejected her cause i wasnt used to being loved and cared for, it was new territory for me and thus, i self sabotaged
Started dating a really great woman right after a VERY traumatic breakup from my ex-fiancé. I had no business starting to date again, but I did it anyway. I stupidly used this great woman as a crutch to escape my healing process. It blew up in my face and I really hurt her. I feel terrible for it. Therapy has helped a lot and I eventually got over the trauma, but not before I ran this poor woman’s heart over with a steamroller due to my rage and anger towards my ex.
I wasn’t able to get over or work through my childhood rape in time
She passed away two years ago at the age of 75. Love you mom, and miss you forever.
Embarrassingly it turned out she lied about her age… i was both hurt and mad about it.
She had to move halfway around the world.
I was self-centered and depressed. I isolated myself from everyone. She didn’t give up. I didn’t deserve her. I grew up some, sorted out my shit. Reached out to apologize for everything, but she moved on. She waited long after things ended too. I hope she’s happy.
Before coming out. I didn’t want to date them from the start but they needed to try.
We weren’t to the point of calling it a romantic “love” but it’s truly the closest I have ever been and I know that she was very interested at a point too.
My own mental health, where I am in life as a result, my inability to overcome enough issues soon enough… all of it added up to me being too insecure to ever take enough risk to make it happen. Only too late did I realize how much she really had been interested, despite these things… She has moved on. I understand, but it still hurts.
When we got together, it was a condition that we wouldn’t have children.
That lasted for 7 years, then her best friend had a child and suddenly she wanted one too. Then she gave me an ultimatum.
She had a very serious accident she was” walkin the dog” (in more ways than one) and tripped and fell on a man’s dick.
I didn’t know how to fix the problems we had. We’ve been broken up two years and I feel I’ll never experience genuine love like that again.
She gained a lot of weight and I neglected her sexually.