Playing hard to get. I don’t care if that’s their method of flirting, the second I get the notion that you’re uninterested, I’m out. I’m not going to that guy that can’t take a hint.
Someone abusing you/ taking advantage then playing victim while also being legally entitled to. So technically you can’t do anything without getting in trouble and you can’t legally defend yourself. It’s basically a system that encourages sneaky abuse and good liars.
People that don’t listen, when they ask you something. People who talk about things they have no clue about. Self absorbed people. Closed minded people.
Nothing pisses me off more. In the case of excuses, there can be legitimate reasons for things that happen, but take responsibility for your hand in it.
People complaining about easily fixable problems. Start solving it and be done with it. I’m not solving it for you, and I’m not providing validation for your hardship if you have all the tools readily available to relief yourself of that problem.
Tardiness, if you tell me to be there by 6 am, I’ll be there by 5:45 am. That 15 minutes early is on me, but I cannot tolerate the people that will be there at 6:10, 6:15 and act like time means nothing
Princess Behaviour or Entitlement and all this… Social dancing when dating.
A woman asked me if we are already exclusive after 2 days of texting on a chat platform and was pissed when I said no and told me that I was supposed to… Lie? Idk I think iam to neurodivergent for that shit. Am I supposed to lie? How am I supposed to take you serious as a partner if I get punished for saying the truth.
I can understand that you want to vent if something is on your mind, but like my mom… She knocks on the door, gets in to the living room and it most of the time takes her THIRTY SECONDS before she starts complaining about what she saw on the road, how busy it was, how loud traffic was, how my house looks, the dishes that are in the sink etc.
And you can talk to those people about maybe complaining less or starting to journal about their complaints, but then they see you not accepting their complaints as you making them feel bad.
Self sabotage is at the top of my list. And conflict avoidance. It’s absolutely infuriating to me because I will almost always meet you some where in the middle. I thrive on making sure everyone has their needs met and be accommodated. And even if we disagree I will respect that you attempted to negotiate.
A lack of opinion. I’m not saying you have to die on every hill for every position presented, but at least have a thought you can share. You can be flexible, but don’t be passive aggressive. If you are always saying “I don’t care” and then bitch about the decision then you need to speak up when the choice is presented.
Just bullshit. I’m grown, you’re grown. If there is an issue or we say/do something that bothers us, lets just fucking talk about it. I’ve BEEN over the whole, my wife talked with your wife and NOW I know. You know?
I don’t care who you are… if we’re dating, you’re my father, boss, friend, coworker, or the pope. Talk to me a certain way and my response likely won’t be the one you’re looking for.
Pride of ignorance. It’s perfectly fine if you don’t understand something, but don’t be proud of it — and definitely don’t assume that you know everything about it already.
Mothers
Now hear me out I’m not attacking all motherhood but I do have a problem with the way society believes all mothers are angels when in reality most women are horrible at their jobs.
-Mothers who are so selfish they forget that the kids grow up become adults and have their own lives.
-Mothers who make their children their identity but get mad when people don’t really care or have a different opinion
-Abusive Mothers (you already know either emotional , physical or mental it’s just too much)
-Mothers who forget that it also takes a man to Raise children or forget that there is a father in the child’s life.
Again this is not to attack motherhood but this is what I have low tolerance for selfish mothers with these examples
I’ll start this off by saying I’m not straight, when I see people scream homophobia over stupid shit like a Disney film that doesn’t have a gay character I start to lose my mind. There’s 64 countries where being gay is illegal and in 12 of those it carries the death penalty, and you’re taking a stand HERE ??? Its all so performative and selfish. When all you do is cry wolf it’s gonna make people disregard the actual human rights violations happening in countries that we call allies
Bad actors. I’m a very forgiving and understanding person, I never ascribe malice to people mistakes and actions. I always give people second and third chances. But the second it becomes clear someone is not acting with good intentions, all effort to keep the peace goes out the window.
E.g. they who don’t let you off the train before they push to get on
They don’t move to let you pass on the pavement when they’re walking 3,4,5+ abreast, as if you’re supposed to phase through them as a ghost or wait literally in the road to let them pass
Women who don’t get back to me before they go to bed for the day. You’re busy, fine but if you can’t shoot me a text while you’re eating dinner or scrolling your phone before bed. You’re done. If it was just a game, you lost.
I’m the Bouncer and if you can’t pay the entrance fee, you don’t get in.
Chasing. I’m 42. I’m out if you think that’s something you need in your 40s to tell you I’m invested. I wouldn’t have approached you if I didn’t think there was potential.
Conversation that does not include the transfer of potentially usefully actionable information.
Waffle talk, gossip (whether friends or celebrities), stuff like “it’s gonna be okay” when I know that if action is not taken, it actually won’t be okay
Comments
Idiocy.
Beating around the bush. Get to the point.
habitually very late people. i respect my time, i expect other people to do the same.
People.
Playing hard to get. I don’t care if that’s their method of flirting, the second I get the notion that you’re uninterested, I’m out. I’m not going to that guy that can’t take a hint.
Someone abusing you/ taking advantage then playing victim while also being legally entitled to. So technically you can’t do anything without getting in trouble and you can’t legally defend yourself. It’s basically a system that encourages sneaky abuse and good liars.
Drama
Double standards/hypocrisy.
People on phones in cinemas or theatres.
Stupid people and raging feminists. Although, they are often one-in-the-same.
Low-effort posts.
Unapologetic hypocrisy, and literally lack of reflection, and being argumentative with no real reason to, and flagrant lying.
Trashy big mouth women
Modern day feminism and its double standards.
Aggression from any gender.
Games within a relationship. If I wanted to play games, I’d have turned on my PlayStation.
I have a low tolerance for Interstate road trips that are longer than 100 miles
I would much rather book with Delta and watch an IFE movie, or book with Amtrak
Bullets. That shit goes right through me! Next thing you know, I’m spewing out both ends.
People that don’t listen, when they ask you something. People who talk about things they have no clue about. Self absorbed people. Closed minded people.
Attentionwhoring.
Bullshit, malarkey and poppycock
Bullshit
Self sabotage, not listening, laziness, emotional and mental immaturity, micromanagement and poor hygiene.
Drama. Not doing it any longer. You bring it to the table you lose your seat at the table.
Excuses and intolerance.
Nothing pisses me off more. In the case of excuses, there can be legitimate reasons for things that happen, but take responsibility for your hand in it.
People who are intolerant of other people’s cultures.
And the Dutch.
Not being to handle the truth
Not being able to handle the truth
Entitlement.
Shenanigans.
Pain
Dairy products. Eating too much dairy makes me blow up the closest bathroom 💩💩💩
You.
Alcohol
People complaining about easily fixable problems. Start solving it and be done with it. I’m not solving it for you, and I’m not providing validation for your hardship if you have all the tools readily available to relief yourself of that problem.
The smell of cinnamon, I’ll get a migraine walking by those stupid Christmas brooms at the store.
Lines. Either waiting in line to order things, or checkout lines.
People standing in doorways. They walk into a store, and just stop after entering blocking everyone else.
And people standing in the way while grocery shopping. Do people purposely block others while wandering around?
Histrionics. Drama. Mind games. Idiocy. …I am too old for this shyte.
Slow driver’s
A lack/no manners
Mind games
Influencers
any sort of BS
Bossy women
People. Men. Women. Kids. Except my own.
Dogs that are off leash and don’t listen to commands.
People that let their dogs off leash knowing damn well their dog doesn’t listen to them.
Oh sorry this is the mens reddit page lmao well here we are huh?
Intentionally foolish people.
Pessimistic people
Bullshit
Rude attitude
Obesity
petty drama
Tardiness, if you tell me to be there by 6 am, I’ll be there by 5:45 am. That 15 minutes early is on me, but I cannot tolerate the people that will be there at 6:10, 6:15 and act like time means nothing
Other people’s bullshit.
Princess Behaviour or Entitlement and all this… Social dancing when dating.
A woman asked me if we are already exclusive after 2 days of texting on a chat platform and was pissed when I said no and told me that I was supposed to… Lie? Idk I think iam to neurodivergent for that shit. Am I supposed to lie? How am I supposed to take you serious as a partner if I get punished for saying the truth.
Willful ignorance. I have no respect for people who refuse to learn
All of modernity
Bullshit.
Dishonesty
People in general. Stupid people more specifically.
Complaining.
I can understand that you want to vent if something is on your mind, but like my mom… She knocks on the door, gets in to the living room and it most of the time takes her THIRTY SECONDS before she starts complaining about what she saw on the road, how busy it was, how loud traffic was, how my house looks, the dishes that are in the sink etc.
And you can talk to those people about maybe complaining less or starting to journal about their complaints, but then they see you not accepting their complaints as you making them feel bad.
Self sabotage is at the top of my list. And conflict avoidance. It’s absolutely infuriating to me because I will almost always meet you some where in the middle. I thrive on making sure everyone has their needs met and be accommodated. And even if we disagree I will respect that you attempted to negotiate.
A lack of opinion. I’m not saying you have to die on every hill for every position presented, but at least have a thought you can share. You can be flexible, but don’t be passive aggressive. If you are always saying “I don’t care” and then bitch about the decision then you need to speak up when the choice is presented.
Mosquitos. Hate those fuckers.
Complaining.
Mind games. Just be direct.
Just bullshit. I’m grown, you’re grown. If there is an issue or we say/do something that bothers us, lets just fucking talk about it. I’ve BEEN over the whole, my wife talked with your wife and NOW I know. You know?
Currents below 10 milliamperes. Anything above that is a mood killer.
Recreational drama. Keep that shit out of my life.
Intolerance
Talking in a movie theater
Children
Working for a living
Stupid people
Idiots on their phones not paying attention
Bullies
Bees
Bigotry
Lies.
Olives and spam
Assholes
Talking to me a certain way.
I don’t care who you are… if we’re dating, you’re my father, boss, friend, coworker, or the pope. Talk to me a certain way and my response likely won’t be the one you’re looking for.
Racism
Pride of ignorance. It’s perfectly fine if you don’t understand something, but don’t be proud of it — and definitely don’t assume that you know everything about it already.
Stupidity. And greed.
Fortnite
Fortnite killed unreal tournament
Hypocrites and gas lighting. I will use receipts against u…don’t care if this is family
People
Ignorance
Willful stupidity and ignorance.
Intolerance.
The Dutch
Stupid OBIDEN loving lemmings🖕
Mothers
Now hear me out I’m not attacking all motherhood but I do have a problem with the way society believes all mothers are angels when in reality most women are horrible at their jobs.
-Mothers who are so selfish they forget that the kids grow up become adults and have their own lives.
-Mothers who make their children their identity but get mad when people don’t really care or have a different opinion
-Abusive Mothers (you already know either emotional , physical or mental it’s just too much)
-Mothers who forget that it also takes a man to Raise children or forget that there is a father in the child’s life.
Again this is not to attack motherhood but this is what I have low tolerance for selfish mothers with these examples
Idiots.
Inappropriate footwear
Wanna be macho alpha tough guys.
I’m a live and let live guy, but god is it enjoyable emasculating those losers.
<looking around> all THIS shit.
Indecisiveness and disrespect.
People who do not admit their mistakes.
Narcissistic people
Willful ignorance and obvious bullshit.
I generally reject emotional arguments out of hand. It’s a waste of my time to listen to them.
Emotions are important things but not when you’re trying to learn something or make a decision.
Projection.
Bragging… especially when it’s not backed up with any sort of truth.
Other men talking trash about their wives.
Talking on speaker phone in public.
Lying.
People that refuse to accept responsibility, people that refuse to learn from mistakes, people that insist on others doing it for them.
Barking dogs.
Liberal BS
People who don’t meet their own standards
I’ll start this off by saying I’m not straight, when I see people scream homophobia over stupid shit like a Disney film that doesn’t have a gay character I start to lose my mind. There’s 64 countries where being gay is illegal and in 12 of those it carries the death penalty, and you’re taking a stand HERE ??? Its all so performative and selfish. When all you do is cry wolf it’s gonna make people disregard the actual human rights violations happening in countries that we call allies
willful ignorance
Being confidently wrong.
If you can’t think something through before you say it, shut the fuck up.
high body count women
Bad actors. I’m a very forgiving and understanding person, I never ascribe malice to people mistakes and actions. I always give people second and third chances. But the second it becomes clear someone is not acting with good intentions, all effort to keep the peace goes out the window.
People that don’t use their turn signals.
It’s not that hard folks.
Absolute bullshit.
Mess, hoarding
Bullies
People without common decency.
E.g. they who don’t let you off the train before they push to get on
They don’t move to let you pass on the pavement when they’re walking 3,4,5+ abreast, as if you’re supposed to phase through them as a ghost or wait literally in the road to let them pass
I could go on
Women with no accountability
Women who don’t get back to me before they go to bed for the day. You’re busy, fine but if you can’t shoot me a text while you’re eating dinner or scrolling your phone before bed. You’re done. If it was just a game, you lost.
I’m the Bouncer and if you can’t pay the entrance fee, you don’t get in.
Chasing. I’m 42. I’m out if you think that’s something you need in your 40s to tell you I’m invested. I wouldn’t have approached you if I didn’t think there was potential.
Mustard, i can eat habaneros like snack peppers but colmans mustard has me crying!
Drama. Got no more patience for it. GTFO with that shit.
People who dont take no for an answer
Pretty much everything. Used to be really laid back, but adult life sucks and I’m so very tired
Conversation that does not include the transfer of potentially usefully actionable information.
Waffle talk, gossip (whether friends or celebrities), stuff like “it’s gonna be okay” when I know that if action is not taken, it actually won’t be okay
Bullshit
inattentive drivers
Unleashed/uncontrolled dogs, “pets.”
Tomfoolery and general shenanigans.