A lassie took me to her nans birthday party. When I say party, there was just her nan, her parents, some other assorted old people, and a buffet complete with hedgehog cheese and pineapple decorations. As first dates go, that was interesting.
I have really bad social anxiety, and in general suffer from panic attacks. We met in a grocery store parking lot, went and got some snacks and drinks, and just hung out in the bed of my truck (we are in our 40s). This is what she wanted to to do on a first meetup, and i was completely ok with that. She could tell i was nervous, and getting a little anxious, so she just held onto me, talked a lot to get my mind off of it, and eventually it all went away. Her kindness and understanding was amazing, and i haven’t left her side. Our relationship is fantastic
Good: I went to the bathroom, came back from behind her to see her FaceTiming her friend. She was ripping her, so I was confused. Apparently her friend had been shit talking me (despite not knowing me) and the girl I was dating her told her to knock it off. I stood there for a minute until she hung up. Was extremely nice to see someone actually sticking up for me for once instead of ragging on me to blend in.
Bad: outright told me “if you were in a room with 10 guys, I’d probably pick 8-9 of them before you, but you’re doing something with your life, so that’s why I’m here.”
In college, I was throwing a house party and invited her to come over for our first date. She got stoned and then was drinking, and puked in and around the sink.
I’m a huge nerd. I like some fantasy shows, books, and video games, but it isn’t like the one and only thing that I talk about.
I made a vague reference to something from the Witcher for my own self-amusement that I assumed would go over her head. She responded with a word-for-word quote from a Dwarf character in Witcher 3 using the Dwarven accent. I immediately knew that I was sold.
Unfortunately, although the date very very well, I blew it by being too overeager to see her again. This was probably like a year ago (I’ve dated other women since then) and the thought of her still haunts me from time to time. I hope she’s doing well and has found somebody who appreciates her dorkiness.
Good: Taught her how to ride a bike; lifelong skill.
Bad: was out at a resturant, her exhusband came in and she went crazy stood up yelling, gave the waiter my credit card said I’ll be back in a bit. She asked me “What was that about!?” As if i was the nutty one… I got her an uber.
Invited me inside and BEGGED me to f her. I declined but stayed and cuddled until she fell asleep.
We stayed in contact, and saw each other a few times afterward the initial meeting, but never even kissed again.
It was a very strange experience, and it actually had me all screwed up for a few weeks.
Ashley picked up the check because she had a government job and money like that, what’-her-face said her hobby was “spending money” after she scoffed and told me that I was probably too into Japanese things…pero yo aprendiendo a hablar en español. Mi amor es el idioma de español 🥲
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Crazy bitch shoplifted.
Anal.
A lassie took me to her nans birthday party. When I say party, there was just her nan, her parents, some other assorted old people, and a buffet complete with hedgehog cheese and pineapple decorations. As first dates go, that was interesting.
Took my virginity, that was pretty rad.
She got too drunk and I had pull over 3 times on the way home so she could vomit.
Invited me to travel to Mexico with her straight from the Ramen place we met at.
I have really bad social anxiety, and in general suffer from panic attacks. We met in a grocery store parking lot, went and got some snacks and drinks, and just hung out in the bed of my truck (we are in our 40s). This is what she wanted to to do on a first meetup, and i was completely ok with that. She could tell i was nervous, and getting a little anxious, so she just held onto me, talked a lot to get my mind off of it, and eventually it all went away. Her kindness and understanding was amazing, and i haven’t left her side. Our relationship is fantastic
Good: I went to the bathroom, came back from behind her to see her FaceTiming her friend. She was ripping her, so I was confused. Apparently her friend had been shit talking me (despite not knowing me) and the girl I was dating her told her to knock it off. I stood there for a minute until she hung up. Was extremely nice to see someone actually sticking up for me for once instead of ragging on me to blend in.
Bad: outright told me “if you were in a room with 10 guys, I’d probably pick 8-9 of them before you, but you’re doing something with your life, so that’s why I’m here.”
She brought her female friend and they talked to each other so i called one of my friends too and long story short we fucked em both. W
Gave a sloppy toppie in the parking lot
In college, I was throwing a house party and invited her to come over for our first date. She got stoned and then was drinking, and puked in and around the sink.
She showed up at my dorm room to go out. We never left.
I’m a huge nerd. I like some fantasy shows, books, and video games, but it isn’t like the one and only thing that I talk about.
I made a vague reference to something from the Witcher for my own self-amusement that I assumed would go over her head. She responded with a word-for-word quote from a Dwarf character in Witcher 3 using the Dwarven accent. I immediately knew that I was sold.
Unfortunately, although the date very very well, I blew it by being too overeager to see her again. This was probably like a year ago (I’ve dated other women since then) and the thought of her still haunts me from time to time. I hope she’s doing well and has found somebody who appreciates her dorkiness.
Good: Taught her how to ride a bike; lifelong skill.
Bad: was out at a resturant, her exhusband came in and she went crazy stood up yelling, gave the waiter my credit card said I’ll be back in a bit. She asked me “What was that about!?” As if i was the nutty one… I got her an uber.
Started nagging me because I missed a turn.
“At this point, I just want to get pregnant and have a baby yknow!?! I don’t even care who the dad is!”—-Like 20 minutes in.
Invited me inside and BEGGED me to f her. I declined but stayed and cuddled until she fell asleep.
We stayed in contact, and saw each other a few times afterward the initial meeting, but never even kissed again.
It was a very strange experience, and it actually had me all screwed up for a few weeks.
Ashley picked up the check because she had a government job and money like that, what’-her-face said her hobby was “spending money” after she scoffed and told me that I was probably too into Japanese things…pero yo aprendiendo a hablar en español. Mi amor es el idioma de español 🥲
We went to her apartment and… some guy who lived with her was there. I left.