Men who are attractive, how much hate have you gotten from other men throughout your life?
Men who are attractive, how much hate have you gotten from other men throughout your life?
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Men who are attractive, how much hate have you gotten from other men throughout your life?
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I’ve definitely caught my share. It’s like there’s this unwritten rule where you’re allowed to be good-looking as long as you’re either oblivious about it or a complete idiot. The second you’re decent-looking and you have a brain or a personality, some dudes act like you just kicked their dog. I’ve had guys who were cool with me right up until their girlfriends laughed at one of my dumb jokes, then suddenly I’m “fake” or “trying too hard.” Bro, I’m just existing.
Your framing implies that good looking men get hate from other men, like you know that, that’s simply not true, men admire better looking men.
Was bullied on the bus in my high school younger years for being attractive and having a “milf” of a mother. I was told daily that they would fuck my mother and kill my father.
Basically none. A tiny bit of angry jealousy from this one guy about 20 years ago
A lot. Men are turning into bitches. Legalize catching hands.
Most guys are cool as long as you’re cool, but there are a couple of big exceptions:
If they think their girl is into you. If they catch her laughing at your joke or something, the territorial dog comes out.
Drunken fools. The kind of guys who go to bars and pick fights always seemed to enjoy sizing me up and trying to reel me into their bullshit.
Have to wear a bag on my head to stop the stampede of lassies lusting after me and blokes from jealously hating me.
Aye, right.
Never, just jokes. Anyone that honestly would is a weirdo.
I’m either not attractive, don’t notice other men hating me, or other men just don’t hate me, because I don’t feel like this happens.
I would consider myself quite attractive, but can’t say I’ve ever received any hate from other guys for that or for anything. Maybe except for smashing them on the footy field lol
Still waiting for the hate to show up. I guess you have to be attractive first
I have never thought I was super hot … but the same time I don’t think of myself as but ugly. And I’ve never gotten any heat or hatred either direction which kind of confirms that I’m at the hottest or the worst.
I’ve had friends lose attractiveness with age, while for me it was the opposite, i’m the literal ugly duckling.
Needless to say, I’ve been told that i’m lucky only because of insert physical feature, dismissing completely the work and sweat and tears that have brought me here, from my supposedly best friend
Had this one dickhead in particular almost try ruin my whole life cause the girl he liked, liked me
Interesting question. I’ve never received hate throughout my … ohhhh …
I’m a personal trainer. A big of my job is keeping my body in good shape for marketing purposes. The guys I know in the gym are all cool asf. Some look at me as motivation to achieve a sick physique.
Now, I’m also a video game nerd and I’ve always kept my body in shape. In college, I was a part of the anime club and most of the guys there are the typical musty nerd stereo type. Used to get a lot of attention from the girls in the group and oh boy, those nerds hated me to death lol.
In my experience, it’s not so much being good looking that brings hate but getting female attention when other guys are starved of it.
Hate?
Probably not much.
Envy? Oh, yes.
Zero.
Conversely, I’m guilty of making assumptions about objectively attractive men…most recently, a new hire at my hotel restaurant, this guy is literally a Disney prince, and a body builder…he worked in another department for a while, before he became my immediate supervisor…until then, I assumed he’d be a stereotypical douche-bro…and I couldn’t have been more wrong.
He’s one of the kindest, most modest, gentle souls I’ve ever met.
We bonded and when he left, I followed him to his next restaurant.
It’s such a treat to work with him, and he’s particularly young, so I was flattered when he would come to me for dating advice (I’m no looker myself, but I’ve got 15 years on him and I guess he recognized my stable relationship and had the honesty to confide in me his struggles)
This guy could sweep any woman off her feet, but I think he’s just such a humble guy, he doesn’t know how to navigate/weed out women who only appreciate his physical qualities.
We don’t do that
Oooooooooh boy! A LOT!
My nickname in high school was “Pretty Boy,” which I absolutely hated. And the guys hated me because it wasn’t their name. I was accused of being gay all the time. Guys would go out of their way to make sure their girlfriends were never around me. Male co-workers treated me like shit from my first day on my jobs to the last.
In undergraduate school, it wasn’t as bad, but a lot of guys would see me on campus and immediately start holding their girlfriend’s hand or rub all over her and kiss all over her. Same thing if I were on a bus or train. They always saw me as a threat. I’m earning my PhD now and it’s the same story.
I go to dance clubs and nothing’s different. I can’t tell you how many guys try to fight me for “looking at my girlfriend” or would snatch her away when I walked by. I’ve noticed male service workers treat me like shit too. Not all, but enough that it’s a pattern.
I’m married now, and now a lot of women hit on me when they see my ring. I don’t think they want me per se. I think it’s that thing women do that they don’t really want the guy. They just want to prove to his girlfriend/wife that “I look better than you do!” by taking me from her.
It’s tiring.
Pretty much none. Most of the hate Ive experienced in my life as in regards to my looks or status was from women Ive either rejected or broke things off with. The vast majority of men Ive encountered just accept things as they are.
Just some bullying and some people who come as friends, but with shady intentions.
Had issues with the boyfriend of a girl one year during a travel semester in college. one night when a bunch of us went out to dinner, I thought he was cool and was trying to make friends with him. The girl told me a few days later the guy absolutely hated me.
He was super controlling and was afraid of her leaving him for me. He didn’t want her talking to me despite us being in a semester long project group. He even hated when she talked with groups of women. One of conservative trad boys that didn’t like their wife having a life outside of him
I became such a contentious point they would fight multiple times a week over and I know at least once she told him to take back the ring. They got married, had a kid to “save the marriage” and are now divorced lmao
Mind you I don’t think I’m an extremely attractive guy. Never had another issue with a guy.