Men who currently have a girlfriend, how did the two of you meet in the first place?

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I’m just curious and for many of you it may be very unique

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  2. borgoffdp Avatar

    online dating…it does actually work

  3. SewerSlidalThot Avatar

    At the family reunion.

  4. KayakingATLien Avatar

    Tinder

    I had good success with the dating apps.

  5. Bot_Ring_Hunter Avatar

    I respond to chemical releases from train wrecks. My wife responds to chemical releases at her factory. One of my trains had a release at her factory, and we met on the tracks trying to clean up some oil.

  6. ElegantMankey Avatar

    She’s my fiancee now, but we met at a friends birthday party.
    I hit on her subordinate, then decided she was boring and went for my fiancee. She rejected me.

    Apparently she regretted it and took my number from a mutual friend

  7. Warm-Ice12 Avatar

    Rec league slowpitch softball.

  8. KingDerp1369421 Avatar

    We met on Facebook. Went on a date after a month or so of talking on and off through Messenger and we’ve been together for several months now.

  9. firstgen32715 Avatar

    Facebook dating. Online dating gets a lot of hate, but I’ve had some pretty good experiences. And now a great one!

  10. RareBasis9710 Avatar

    Hope it’s okay if I answer. My husband and I met in an old random Yahoo chatroom. Those were discontinued a long time ago.

    We were long distance. Went on only three dates. Then went on a whirlwind cruise for a week together. He moved me to his place shortly after. Got married a year after that!

  11. Think_Preference_611 Avatar

    BJJ. We were dating after two lessons lol

  12. user19250 Avatar

    We worked at the same store and go to the same college, but introduced through a friend

  13. FocusOk6215 Avatar

    We got married recently, but we met at a rowing match between our universities.

  14. GNFblade Avatar

    Pumpkin patch at the Minnesota zoo, they have hundreds of jacko lanterns lit up

  15. ToddHLaew Avatar

    I was dating her best friend

  16. certified_cringe_ Avatar

    Ex and I met online through Facebook because we were in a group chat.

  17. Murdercyclist4Life Avatar

    A bar called the “library” we we tell our kids and friends we met at the library lol

  18. project_good_vibes Avatar

    We are immigrants, we met in a language class 12 years ago, we were Facebook friends, but didn’t really keep in touch, beyond the occasional happy birthday or whatever. I got divorced 4 years ago, she got divorced about a year and a half ago. I finally felt like I was ready to start dating again, and had just started looking again. She started showing up in my feed again (I wasn’t looking at her stuff, I didn’t seek her out) and one day I clicked on her feed and looked, it looked to me like she was divorced, so I reached out, we connected, met up a couple of times and started to hang out. We hung out as friends for about 8 months, then we started dating. 😊 She’s amazing!

  19. RiteOfSpring5 Avatar

    She put a post on reddit asking for advice on a working holiday in Australia, I commented a big reply, and we had some back and forth before I offered for her to DM me if she had any other questions. Found out we had a lot of similar interests, and we ended up sending messages back and forth to each other that would take us hours to reply to. Started dating three weeks after that, and she flew over a month after her original post. I left my friends wedding early to pick her up from the airport. Two weeks later, I asked if she wanted to move in with me so she could stop living in a hostel. We’ve been living together for over a year now. We moved incredibly fast, but everything just felt right.

  20. Neekool_Boolaas Avatar

    Currently married to the person I started dating when we were 15. My best friends in elementary school were her best friends in middle school. We didn’t go to school together until 10th grade when we found out and instantly started dating. We are each other’s best friend, almost 20 years later.

  21. Tri343 Avatar

    I was biking home and I saw what would be my future gf walking along the side walk. I turned around to say something and we’ve been dating since. About 1.5 year now

  22. bala219 Avatar

    I am an immigrant and was vacationing in Europe. I had an evening free for myself as my friends left in an early flight and mine was scheduled the next morning. I was roaming alone this evening while on call speaking in my mother tongue. That’s where I met my current girlfriend when she approached hearing me speak our mother tongue.

  23. slwrthnu_again Avatar

    I was in high school and went to visit my friend who worked at the mall, he told me this hot chick just started working across the hall so we went over there and talked to her. She was hot and cool but I was in a relationship and my boy was interested so nothing happened. Would see her around school until I graduated and we would run into each other every couple years. After a decade of that happening we were both single and started talking more on fb. 13 years later and she’s the only person I want to spend my life with

  24. notyour_motherscamry Avatar

    Mutual friend! We officially met 3 years ago as we were both in the wedding party for the couple. She was in a long-term relationship at the time so it never registered as more than friends (plus she lived in a completely different part of the country).

    That relationship ended last October or so & we reconnected in January at the mutual friend’s baby shower (with the mutual friend doing a lot of pushing). She still lived in a different part of the country but when talking it became apparent she wanted to move & try somewhere new.

    She then came to my city for her birthday about a month later & we spent every day for an entire week together in some capacity. At the end of her trip, we said we wanted to see each other again & booked a trip to to see our mutual friend’s new baby. We’ve continued to see each other every 2-3 weeks ever since.

    She became my gf officially ab 3 weeks ago & is moving to my city in August 🥰

  25. mysteriouslypuzzled Avatar

    She fell on me. Knocked me the fuck out. Gave me concussion..stayed with me all night. Bought me dinner as an apology..then we hit it off. 🤷🏻‍♂️

  26. 2ManyAccounts2Count Avatar

    She was dating my cousin and I met her at my brothers wedding. They broke up and I smelled opportunity.

  27. ToddHLaew Avatar

    It was years later, I became friends with her brother. I would see my now wife occasionally. She sought me out at a bar one night. Started dating after that

  28. Evil_Kryton666 Avatar

    I don’t right now but I have before and I will again. So far, they all started with one of us starting a conversation while we were outside somewhere and it turned out we both thought the other person was fun to be around.

    I’d imagine that’s how I’ll find the next one, too.

  29. Difficult-Equal9802 Avatar

    Met my wife at a Young business meeting group which she was just there to socialize basically and was not into business. That was in 2009.

  30. Additional-Bit-1662 Avatar

    Jesus I thought there would have been more online dating success stories 😅

  31. Noctuelles Avatar

    Hinge App. We got pizza for a first date.

  32. KinkyMillennial Avatar

    We met on Fetlife. She was showing off some cool Shibari artwork and we got chatting about it, eventually moved to DMs and then things escalated from there 🙂

  33. CPOx Avatar

    Met at work. Still working at the same place 13 or so years later. It’s a big place and we work in different departments so we rarely run into each other here, except for the rare meetings we have together.

  34. p1cwh0r3 Avatar

    Yahoo chat.

  35. Amazing_Band7134 Avatar

    Met my wife match.com

  36. UltraHawk_DnB Avatar

    We met on reddit lol. Long distance for some years and now we’ve been living together for 2 and a half!

  37. alwayshungry1131 Avatar

    Went to high school together. I left to the military I came back home and she hit on me lol I was young and dumb and dated others for a about a year after that until I ran into her brother which caused me to message her. We been together since

  38. Kilari_500 Avatar

    Tinder. Been a couple for 5 years now. 2 kids as well. 4 and 3.

    Worked for us.

    Still, i surely don’t miss Tinder days at all.

  39. Mental_Literature706 Avatar

    Tinder! Our first conversation was about weird injuries we’ve gotten lol

  40. I_AM_DEATH-INCARNATE Avatar

    My best friend was dating one of her friends. She was actually taken when I met her, wasn’t until we’d hung out for like 2 months in group settings that I realized I liked her. I confided in one of my other single friends, and he told me he had a crush on one of the other girls, so we started going after them.

    Word eventually got to her that I liked her. Her current bf was good to her and he was in love but she still wasn’t sure how she felt after nearly a year and a half, so she ended things with him. She was comfortable but not exactly happy, and I guess I was the push she needed to get out of that relationship.

    We started dating soon after she broke up with him, maybe a month or two tops. It’s been over 20 years now.

    I still feel bad for what we did to her ex, he was and probably still is a good guy. But the more I learned about her, the more I realized she was kinda perfect. The only thing that made me nervous was that we were both young and I knew if we started dating we’d probably stick together unless she dramatically changed over the course of the relationship. So that would be it for my messing around/dating life, I would never be single again.

  41. mikess314 Avatar

    Tinder!. In fact, all of my partners over the last 10 years have been on dating apps.

  42. huuaaang Avatar

    Been together 16 years. We met on OKCupid. She contacted me first. Which was very rare.

  43. StupidSexyEuphoberia Avatar

    We played Heroes of the Storm together for years. After she divorced her then husband we started a LDR and now we’re moving in together in two weeks

  44. Thotbegone000000 Avatar

    University, in a theatre club.
    She was the lead role in the show that ran opposite to the one I was in.
    She asked me out.
    Engaged now, together for 7 years.
    I wasn’t attractive enough for dating apps, it was funny how there were a couple of people that asked me out in that club however, and my fiance is legitimately gorgeous.
    Uncontroversial opinion incoming: I think dating apps suck if you’re an average looking guy, really any space where hooking up is the one and only goal.

  45. Iknowr1te Avatar

    university. dated off and on. she taught in japan and we reconnected when she got back. been together for 5 years.