Men who haven’t gotten over your ex, how long has it been and where are you now?

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I’m currently seeing a new girl but I find myself comparing her to my ex. I’m trying to be fair to her but I’m not sure if I should continue if I can’t give her all my headspace. Anyone else have any similar experiences?

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  2. SeaworthinessLong Avatar

    Seems like you really shouldn’t bring up the ex.

  3. TooKoolFoU Avatar

    9 months. Mostly over her, but sometimes I still think about her. Mostly miss what we had and not who she was. I hope she’s doing good and sure she shares the same hopes for me

  4. RnBvibewalker Avatar

    It’s normal to compare and have thoughts..yall shared a very personal relationship.

    If it affects the relationship with your new person, you aren’t ready