I know you can do both and it’s ideal, but I wish to hear some opinions about it
Men who sacrificed dating and relationships to study and have a good career, how did it go?
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I did the opposite, six years later I lost my relationship and have no career at 30+. Regardless, I’m still happy.
No one told me success would be this lonely. I’d rather go back and wish I didn’t work this hard and tried dating instead, while I still had fresh memories of it and experience of it. Chasing success is the worst lie I’ve ever heard. My parents kept telling you’ll have time for everything else later but that is a load of BS. Real purpose in life is balance. Only balance brings happiness. By sacrificing dating to focus on myself I failed in keeping balance.
Well, not dating while studying was the right call in my eyes. Back then, I had little to no free time, and wanted to have more me time.
For now, I am wondering if I should start to date, or if I want to start back some hobbies I had while I was a student.
I’m miserable, unemployed and alone
I’ve got blue balls and I can’t find a job.