Why are you exploiting and sexualizing a mentally vulnerable person? What about a woman’s mental suffering sexy to you? I can’t even. The way that this statement makes my skin crawl. Can we normalize shaming perverted men again.
Why are you exploiting and sexualizing a mentally vulnerable person? What about a woman’s mental suffering sexy to you? I can’t even. The way that this statement makes my skin crawl. Can we normalize shaming perverted men again.
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I’ve never heard that, but that’s just gross. As you say, it suggests a predator who is looking for vulnerable women. Really disgusting.
I think the men that are attracted to this are ultimately attracted to the lack of accountability that comes with sleeping with her. If they can throw everything into the “she’s crazy” box, then they can wash their hands of the fact they used the woman and threw her away, essentially.
It makes me laugh because ya girl is spuuuun and I could not be more boring or vanilla lol
Honestly -imo, “crazy is best in bed” is just a subcategory of the classic madonna – wh0re complex
On one end, you have the “crazy” woman: Her instability is to be enjoyed. Be it due to her intense energy (BPD), fear of abandonement/limerence (CPTSD), or just general lack of inhibition/low-boundaries. Tropes like Manic Pixie Dream Girls (strong ND coding) especially imply ideas like “teaching the man how to live” -focusing more on what the MPDG can do for HIM than him in any way for her.
Meanwhile, on the other side, you have the “stable” woman: Her stability is to be married. Sex is implied as boring or “vanilla”, but this “normal behavior” is perfect for marriage & children. While the crazy woman is ultimately abandoned for her, the stable woman is ultimately cheated on for her (think “Fatal Attraction”)
P.s: If you don’t believe me -go on any forum, with guys struggling with their mentally affected gfs/wives. Sure. Some guys will respond normal. But it’s also very common to see men simply saying a variation of “Run dude. Don’t date crazy”
Just hit ’em with “Thick as a brick, best dick” and reference Puddy from Seinfeld
I don’t think “crazy” means a woman has a medical mental issue. I think in this case it is the girl who would burn your stuff because she saw you talking to another girl type of crazy. It’s not someone mentally suffering, it’s just a wild ride to be around the girl. Maybe it is a medical mental issue deep down but that’s never how I have heard it talked about.
I don’t see this as a gendered phenomenon. Plenty of woman talking about having the best sex with broken toxic men.
I have had this applied to me. In every case, it meant I had the audacity to assert myself and intend to enjoy myself sexually, instead of only passively receiving thier mediocre attention.
Just wanted to post to say the gleeful braggdocio you are referring to is not typically how I have seen it go down as a man.
I have a number of friends many who dated women exceptional at disguising their mental illness as sexual enthusiasm until these friends were invested. I have fallen prey to it myself. The majority of us come out the worse for it by far.
Incidentally, while I have heard other men say the “crazy pussy” line, I have never seen or known anyone who actually sought to prey upon such women in that fashion. It is much more an after-the-fact comment, and I doubt there are many who actually try to hook up for that reason. Though some thin percent may, sure. But I am fairly confident it is more bullshit that men say bc they think it makes them sound cool in a worldly way in front of other men. I’d bet a lot of money it’s largely a fucking myth.
Just my .02. You don’t deal with 140 calls in an afternoon and your gf posted up outside your job talking to everyone leaving the building asking them.to get you to come out bc “omg the sex is amazzzzing!” You just fucking don’t.
Are you all sure that “insane” is what is meant? “Crazy” has many other more positive meanings, like “out of control”, “very excited”, or “wildly surprising”, all of which would fit the context. I don’t use this expression, so I don’t actually know.