Men who use excuses to talk to you: how do yall feel about it?

Men who use an excuse to talk to you (like situational), just to talk to you- do they frustrate you?

They do to me. I feel like they are trying to flirt, in a sneaky way. How do yall feel?

I often feel Like men will take advantage of situations / scenarios just so that they can have an excuse to iinteract with you.

I especially see this in my job, for example, im a mailman SUBSTITUTE. Men will come up to me to ask bogus questions- or questions for the regular that they know i wouldn’t know etc. I find this very icky of them, because it is sneaky to do that. Am I right feeling this way or am I just being paranoid? Does things like that make you feel icky?

I worry I just am overthinkiing it though, because of how common it happens. I do not know if I stand out in a particular way, as a woman, for it to be happening a lot (i hope this makes sense). So i wonder if this is all just me being paranoid?

Are these men doing this to be flirty or am I paranoid? =/