Men who went from ugly to attractive, how differently people started treating you?
Men who went from ugly to attractive, how differently people started treating you?
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Men who went from ugly to attractive, how differently people started treating you?
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Literally everyone is nicer to me after I lost weight and got fit.
Doctors take my concerns more seriously instead of blaming everything under the sun on my weight, I get served faster at a crowded bar, the guys behind the deli counter make more small talk with me, people at work seem more likely to hold the elevator, literally everyone.
It’s like changing the difficulty setting on life.
People started standing closer to me
They follow you around, try to get close to you, smile at you more. Suddenly, pay close attention to you, and what you say and do matters. You get treated like some weird base energy. Even if you’re not paying attention to ANYTHING that’s going on in the social setting. They’ll want your attention and go out there way to get it.
Keep getting touched up by women…
couple of examples, a hair dresser that would rub her tits on my shoulder while she was cutting my hair.. a dental hygienist that would keep touching my arms all the time and making inappropriate inuendo…
Got stalked 7 times i was a talkative kid too my teens and developed anxiety and stop having conversations so I keep to myself now people strangely find it mysterious. I also learned too certain people I can do no wrong.
Was super skinny got older got taller gained muscle and got tattoos and now I get unwanted attention.
The stares I get sometimes are wild now like full full eye contact for like 10 seconds. I’m trying to learn to make moves but the stronnng attention ques are something I’m really not used to. So for me its just learning how to navigate the new attention and figure out what I want to do with that attention.