The man I’m seeing (31M)and myself (33F) have been on several dates over the course of the last couple of months.
The connection seems so solid, and when we talk about it, it feels very clear in the moment that he is working towards something real and lasting, but he calls and texts less frequently than he used to, sometimes going whole days without.
I want to step closer, but my gut is taking notice of this behavioral shift in opposition with verbal affirmations that seem very direct. It’s mixed messages for sure.
TLDR; man seems to be pulling back with consistent texts and calls, but affirms in speech that he wants something real and sees this going somewhere special.