A few weeks back I went on a date with a beautiful women inside and out. We hit it off extremely well and we talked for a few days after, but then she just disappeared. She did inform me she got a lot going on in her life. Iām not sure what should I do. Should I give up or just keep trying once in a while to reach out? We did meet on tinder and literally that night we went on a date. What yāall think?
PS
Thanks to social media it recommended me to add her on IG and FBā¦ I havenāt sent itā¦.
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Move on with your life. If she comes back this behavior will continue.
Iāve been that person that even tho I hit it off with someone I did legit have a lot going on. But tbh if I REALLY wanted to try and make it work I wouldāve.
I say wait a couple weeks then follow up ask how sheās doing and if sheād be down to catchup over coffee or a drink or something. And you hope sheās doing well. If sheād doesnāt go out then you have your answer
At least you learn this now so go meet more women and rotate them like she did to you.
if she has a lot going on in her life & is still adding dating to the mix, she’s trying to distract herself from what she needs to be focused on.
She’s just not that into you. If she was, she would make time.
sheās just not that into you.
She probably continued to date and found someone more to her liking. Itās not the worst thing that could have happened. You only met once. I would just move on.
People donāt always tell us, but they show us with their actions where their head is. I think weāve all had a lot going on with our lives, but with todayās technology, it isnāt hard to check in. I think sheās showing youā¦itās a no go.
I’d text her (or otherwise contact her) and let her know you really enjoyed the first date and her company and you’d love to go out with her again.
Apparently she didnāt hit off with you as you did with herā¦please donāt harass her and move on.
She most certainly is on the FBI most wanted list and is on the run. She just used you for a free date, sorry, it happens these days.
Could be try reaching out, if not response or no effort to respond, move on. She might have more going on and too busy to have a relationship or she may have not liked you as much as you thought either way, the best thing to do is move on and maybe down the line you’ll connect again, but you don’t want to stagnate in life to wait for someone, keep the option open but be open to new opportunities
Usually if I’m unsure and they sound iffy then I would explore other options until I know fs. It totally depends it could be different but in my experience if someone is interested they will make time for you.
What happened to your wife?
She could be just really busy, and it’s nothing personal…
Keep your options open, and keep in touch.
A lot of girls have this phase right after where they pull away, she is probably just processing her emotions on how she feels about you. I think its a positive that she atleast told you something instead of outright ghosting you.
My advice, because ive been here before, just live your life and give her space. Real attraction and emotion towards someone is created when that person is not there, you need to give her time to miss you. If she decides she likes you then she will reach out to you eventually, if she doesnāt then you have your answer and can move on.
DO NOT text her or add her on any social media. She must be the one to contact you first now. You will only appear needy and desperate if you bombard her with questions which will drive her away completely. You also have to keep in mind that you guys arenāt dating, you donāt owe each other anything. Donāt get too attached.
She knows how to contact you – leave it at that
As someone who used to do thisā¦ move on lol
How many did you go out with?
She probably found out that you don’t know how to spell woman.Ā Its hard to respect a guy like that.
Respect her choice. If you press social media and phone contact, she might cry stalker. Isn’t tinder that hook up app? The one for play dates not dinner dates?
That ship has sailed. Move on. There are more starfish in the sea.
Keep reaching out very occasionally and be pleasantly surprised if she responds. This could go on for years. Add her on social media if you feel like it, donāt overthink itā¦she probably wonāt.
Move on bro, it’s a like a 1 night stand, and like others said, she is probably not into you.
I tend to prefer closure. Consider this:
I know itās been ā- days but thought Iād tell you I had a good time. For now, I hope ur safe and doing well. I wish u luck moving forward. If you want to reach out , u have my info.
Woman*
Seems like youāre not that guy
Sheās not into you, move on
It’s your first ghost. Won’t be the last
That means she’s not into you. If she went out on a Tinder date and saying she has a lot of stuff in her life? That’s her nice way of saying “I’m not into you”
Maybe go back on what you said. If you sounded too friendly, too crass or too cocky. More than likely, by the way you’re describing things, I’m assuming you were acting more like you want a relationship and looks like she just wants a pound friend.
Red flag, leave her be.
Don’t chase her. Just do you. I bet if you post more pictures of you hav9ng a good time she’ll find you
She’s with someone else.
Next.
You will be alright.
Iād bounce. No need to worry about it. Been there. I promise if they arenāt talking to you they are definitely talking to someone else. Hell I got dropped and we had a great time too.
She dont like you
Let it go champ , she was her for a good time not a long time
Maybe you’ll reconnect down the line. Maybe she was using you as a placeholder while holding out hope her ex would get back in touch. Either way, carry on with your life man. If she doesn’t value your time now, it’s very unlikely to change if she does get back in touch
A few weeks back but a couple days ago you were posting about marriage counselingā¦ š§š§
When youre 35 years old, you’ll see things clearly.
Women is plural. Woman is singularā¦. just like how men is plural and man is singular. Easy way to remember. Sorry she disappearedā¦ Iād just keep it moving.
Call Brooke and. Jubal. The radio show ull find it out the hard way
I have been one of these. I had a lot going on in my life, for real,Ā and had to send same message. Give her some time and try later… if she doesn’t respond then you know the answerĀ
Let her alone. Put all your admiration into respecting her boundaries.
If she wanted to she would, obviously she doesnāt, move on guarantee sheāll come back around with the lack of attention and put it in her face, oh now you want to come around. Move on and find somebody that gives you the same energy you giving