I’m completely pathetic, I’ll never find love or anything close to it. I’m too messed up emotionally, physically, and I’ve got a micro penis. I just don’t deserve to live, my therapist thinks I have avoidant personality disorder and ADHD. These are both recent diagnosis’s and I’m 31. I’ve had a couple failed suicide attempts and I just wish I’d have the courage to go through with it.
For a long time I wished a could have a relationship, but I realize I’d just be wasting their time and setting myself up for rejection. I’ve already had a couple people reject me for being too small. I know it’s not anyone else’s problem, who would want to put up with a micro penis, it’s just not realistic. I hope I have the courage to end things
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You don’t have to live only for your dick that you cannot change. Do something else.
I was dating a guy that had a micropenis. He did not disclose this before the big moment. Yes, I was taken by surprise but size really does not matter if you other things and include toys. Because he hadn’t disclosed it to me… it was awkward. I didn’t even realize it was in for the first 2 minutes. Afterward he got all weird and he still wouldn’t talk about it. The next day I had plans with a group of friends… 3 girls and a guy. The guy I’m dating (for a whole 2 weeks) starts flipping out about me hanging out with other guys. So I ended it. I’m not going to let someone take their insecurities out on me.
It’s called a self-fulfilling prophecy. Had he not been so self conscious about his dick, he’d not have sabotaged a potentially good relationship.
Lesbians (usually) have no dicks, and they manage to please ladies all the time. Trust me, penetration is not the end all be all of sex (most women orgasm better and for longer with clitoral stimulation anyway!)
I feel like a lot of people put so much pressure on sex. It doesn’t have to be your whole life. You’re making your identity your dick when life is so much more!
Hobby’s, travelling, tasting new food, trying new experiences, meeting friends, going on different life adventure, and even finding a partner, you can get creative in other ways!
Start thinking about the things you’re grateful for in life, even if you start small, like how warm and comfy your bed is when you go to bed at night, the smell of your favourite food cooking, how lucky you are to have certain friends or family in your life.
There are so many people who don’t have those things, even the little things. Your life is what you make it my man!
Believe it or not, OP – lots of people have fetishes for micro penises. (Myself included)
What people don’t like are others who project their insecurities.
Be up front and disclose it; if they aren’t into it before hand then they certainly won’t be into it during. And if they are into it then you get the pleasure of experiencing sex without being self conscious because they already knew going in!
Hang in there.
Sounds like you’re dealing with depression and lack of connection/community.
I have ADHD. I wasn’t diagnosed until 43. I have severe clinical depression, severe clinical anxiety, and severe combination -type ADHD. I’m certain I have autism, as well, but getting diagnosed as an adult is expensive.
I’ve also done a decent amount of sexual exploration, and I can tell you that while people absolutely have preferences for body types and parts, your dick is not what’s keeping you from a relationship. Of the men I’ve been with, 2 had micros and they were amazing partners. Stop projecting how you feel about your dick into others.
I know when things look bleak, it’s difficult to have a positive outlook. I’ve been off meds for way too long, and clinging to life is hard. Radical acceptance has been a helpful tactic for me.
I wish you the best.
Bro I’m a lesbian and some days I wish I was a man with a decent sized d*ck so I can feel my fiancee completely.
But instead I have to use a strap on and that’s fine too.
Just be confident with your sex game and be fine with using toys and synthetic appendages if need be.
This feeling you’re having will end. You can probably even find a woman who is asexual or less sexual and life will be great
Does a therapist have the necessary credentials to diagnose you? I thought diagnosis done by doctors only…maybe go see a psychiatrist instead of a therapist????? Also, there are people out there where sex is honestly not everything in a relationship..just saying
I’m a woman in my 30s and I’ve had sex with three men with tiny dicks. Two of those would be considered ‘micro dicks’. I dated one of them for 3 years. Loved them wholly.
You don’t sound like you want hope or reassurance or advice on how to live a good life. You want a reason to have a fucking sook, and congratulations, you’ve got one.
There’s nothing anybody can do for you if you’re determined to stay a sad sack of shit.
A life partner is so many other things then the genitals, and there is plenty of other ways to have sex. It maybe seem hopeless, and out of hope, but if you don’t live your life until you’re old how would you know that’s it’s actually pointless to continue?
Need measurements here because some people think they have one but actually don’t. And knowing that can change your whole perception. And also belly fat hides an inch
No luv you’ll be fine ❤️
My ex husband has one. We didn’t divorce bc of it. I knew on 3rd date! We got married 10 months later!
My ex had a small penis. He was an expert at getting me to climax. There’s so many other ways to please your partner other than PIV.
You are not your dick. You should speak with a regular urologist or cosmetic urologist to see if you have any options to enlarge your penis if it’s affecting your life to the point of suicide. You could also buy a strap on that goes over your dick and tell the girl before hand. Alternatively you could seek out Asexual women who don’t want sex. They have a hard time finding a relationship as well
Use a strap and try to date bi women, they will be more used to the concept. Also you could find a women who is a top, again bi women are the place to look
I had a FWB who has a micro. It was some of the best sex I’ve ever had because he gave amazing head and his hands were magical. He was attentive and overall a great guy. Once you stop seeing PIV sex as the end-all-be-all, a whole new world opens up for you!
Your micropenis is valid.