MIL heard about my friend dying from a stroke caused partially by her birth control implant and said if I had more moral people in my life I wouldn’t have to go through things like this.

I’m just so disgusted by her at all times. I’ve been trying to be there for my fiancè as his father has lung cancer. His mom treats everyone horribly and has verbally abused her sons for their entire lives. She’s caused many a break up. Some kickers from her are openly talking about how her son’s stepkids aren’t her real grandchildren and her real one is the priority, being against abortion but offering to pay for one because her son’s partner was abused as a child therefore “can’t be trusted around children”, and now this lovely tidbit.

I was visiting my FIL (who is a sad, beaten down husk of a man) and got a message that the autopsy results came back on a friend who passed away last month. She had been trying to get her Nexplanon implant out for 2 years but kept being told no. She ended up dying from a stroke due to complications at only 25. My MIL overheard this and said it’s so sad, but what she thought was sad is that “young women nowadays are missing out on wholesome relationships and sleeping with people thinking there’s no consequence, it seems like she didn’t have great morals, if you had better friends with values you wouldn’t have friends dying at this age”. My fiance told her how absurd that is and I was just dumbfounded.

Oh did I mention she works with DCF but doesn’t think addicts should ever get their kids back no matter what… even though she was addicted to crack for 15 years and just recently got arrested for shoplifting for the 4th time (despite being wealthy)? And she’s cheated on her husband, so. But you know, someone dying is secondary to the fact that they used birth control.

Then she started ranting about women who have kids they can’t afford or take care of. I couldn’t even articulate how absolutely braindead she sounded. Like you were just implying death is a reasonable consequence for using contraception then say that? God she is such a disgusting woman and everyone has just accepted she’s going to abuse them forever or they won’t be able to see their cousins/nieces and nephews/father etc because she’s so malicious.