as the title says, caught her sending him messages saying its not too late to leave me (for religious reasons). I obviously get upset and ask him to talk her, he does, which results in nothing. zero accountability or apologies from her and in fact, she doubles down and accuses me of me being toxic for even making him confront her about it.
I decide enough is enough and tell him that I will not be visiting her for a while which is exactly what I do for a couple months. after which he tells me she’s really upset with me and is threatening to not attend our wedding if I dont visit. I tell him that’s insane and get upset. he then tells me, you know what I dont like how upset you are and I dont know how you might want to retaliate against my mom in the future so if you want to be married to me YOU ARE TO SIGN LEGAL DOCUMENTS STATING YOU WILL NOT PROHIBIT MY MOTHER FROM SEEING HER GRANDCHILDREN OR HAVE A SAY IN WHEN SHE GETS TO SEE THEM.
note: he broke up with me.
need I say anything else?????????? HAAAAAA?
am I crazy or are they?????
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That sound of screeching tyres? That’s you dodging a bullet.
You definitely dodge a bullet, thank your lucky stars and go treat yourself
Congratulations on not having a crazy mother-in-law and bitch man anymore! 🥳
She got upset about your religious differences and tried to ruin your relation.
You responded like an adult as asked your husband to address that with his mother.
She’s the one who is getting ridiculously upset over the consequences of her own actions.
She’s also the one threatening to retaliate by not attending your wedding.Â
Oh, but you’re the one that is too upset and might retaliate. Bro, what?