just a few moments ago my little sisters aged 17 and 14 came in and told me this ” we think mom is cheating on dad ” and I was so f****** confused, apparently mom is talking to her boss who is 50/60 something and she asked him to say I love you and he said I told you that in the office already
Then they told me she had a stalker who was following her for 3 days or something and they knew that because they saw her texts and the second story was over the phone
then they told me she deletes everything now and I do not have any evidence to confront her or show my dad , my heart aches for them they held a huge secret since May and they could not tell anyone
P.S.: I know this sub is for divorced people but this will lead to divorce and please if there are any arab people in this sub please give me advice since I live in an arab country
I don’t know what to do or who to ask about this because I cannot be throwing accusations like these
advice , please and thank you
I’m sorry if this is unorganized but english is not my first language and Im just shocked by all of this
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Confront your mom. Tell her she has to tell dad or you will.
Or your little sisters are trying to start some drama, or they have no idea what they actually heard, or or or. There is no evidence of anything and confronting your mom will likely lead to an extremely unpleasant and uncomfortable life. And you have no idea what’s actually going on in your parents’ relationship. Tell your sisters to stop snooping.