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CutMaleficent7512

just reading through and there was a line that said: what method of birth did you choose?

my dad wrote “we didn’t choose- you were born”. đź« 

in attempt to try & soften it, mom wrote “by c-section” after. made me chuckle.

just kind of wild that i have in writing that he never actually wanted me.

this is the same man who complains that i never talk to him or try to see him. as if it isn’t the consequences of your own actions!!! ughhhhhh

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  2. Excellent-Zucchini95 Avatar
    Excellent-Zucchini95

    I’m sorry. That sucks. You deserved better.

  3. Bubbly-Elf Avatar
    Bubbly-Elf

    I’m so sorry. He sounds immature, how do you create a whole child and blame the child for being born 🤡 sorry op my dad did the same

  4. cluffernutter3 Avatar
    cluffernutter3

    ah yes, reminds me of when i was young and i asked my dad if he had always wanted children, and he said he could’ve “taken it or left it”

  5. 77Flaming_Death Avatar
    77Flaming_Death

    My daughter was born by emergency cesarean section following a denial of pregnancy (I discovered my pregnancy at 6 months) she is now almost 7 years old and she is the most wonderful person I have ever met in my life and I love her to infinity. We can be a “surprise” child and have the right to be loved ❤️ big hug to you!

  6. Suspicious_Maize3042 Avatar
    Suspicious_Maize3042

    Your not alone op
    My dad called me the “experiment child” ouch it hurt alot as a kid honestly