For context she’s been my mothers friends since college back in their days and was even there for my mother during my birth. Shes pretty much seen me grow up my entire life. Things between us were normal until puberty hit me like a truck, about a year ago when I was 15 I went from 5’8 to 6’2 in 9 months , my voice got deeper , and I went from slightly chubby to in shape thanks to my dad teaching me how to lose weight in the gym .
I saw her about a month ago which was the first time in 2 years because she moved cities . When she saw me she dropped her bag ( and jaw lol ) and said “you’ve gotten so handsome “ to which I replied thank you . We all ate dinner together and she made a sly comment which was “ you clearly don’t struggle with girls at school” I didn’t think nothing of it and later before she left she asked to quickly get my number to stay in contact with me ( she asked my sister to which is why I didn’t think anything initially) but about 3 days after she left she texted me “come over you must be bored to death at home” and even called my mother asking how I am as the only boy from a family of 6 . Again this is my mothers friend so I didn’t think about it too hard but one day my cousin asked for my phone and a few minutes later asked me why this old lady is trying to groom me . I said “ huh what does that even mean “ and then my cousin explained everything and it was all adding up . I plan on telling my mother soon but before I do is it a stretch ?
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Hi. I’m a mom. I’m 46 and have a nearly 12 year old. I’m around a lot of 14, 15 and 16 year olds and I have never ever texted them. When I look at these boys I see boys. Not men. I would never reach out to them to chat or keep in touch. I do have some of their numbers and some of them have my number and that strictly to keep in touch with my son and track him down sometimes. But texting in a friendship way is beyond inappropriate. If one of my friends asked for my son’s number and was texting him I would be very concerned. Talk to your mom and be very careful around this person. I am concerned about her intentions.
She sounds a little odd, yes. If we flipped the genders, 100% immediately we would be thinking CREEP.
Talk to Mom, please.
Mamma bear here, she’s certainly testing you. She’s a weasel cougar that needs to get laid and has crossed a line that should never be crossed. You should let your mom know what shes been up to. I would want to know.
My BFF had a child that’s much closer to us in age than is generally accepted as appropriate. I’m very close to their family. I have only EVER texted that young man to tell him happy birthday. What she is doing is NOT ok. Tell your mama.
Stay away from her, she has predatory behavior and she will give you worms.