I (24f) have never lived outside of my family’s house and I’m scared but I have to since it’s not safe emotionally, mentally, and physically. It’s so scary and I feel like I am not emotionally ready or prepared but I can’t stay here any longer. I am planning on finding a place with my fiancée. I have so much guilt and low self confidence because I feel like I have started my adult life so late and I’m embarrassed. I just need some guidance and support.
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Going out on your own is never on a timer. It’s when you’re ready. And when you’re safe. And it sounds like it’s the right decision to keep you safe.
Take slow steps. Live frugally. Stay safe, find your calm space.