Hi all! Sorry english is not my first language.
After school I (16 f) went shopping with some friends and I saw a dress. I took some pictures in the changing room and later used it as my profile picture on whatsapp.
A couple of days later I saw that my dad (39 m) is also using my picture as his profile picture on whatsapp. That makes me uncomfortable because I don’t know with what people he is texting. I am not allowed to look at his chats because he says they are too mature. Noone from the family is allowed to look at his chats (including my mum). His phone is always with him and don’t know his PIN to change the picture myself. Now I am scared that the people he texts with will see me in the city and start talking to me.
I have already asked him to change the picture but he refuses. I have also told him that the whole situation is uncomfortable for me bit he downplays it. What else can I do so he finally changes the picture?
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Talk to your mom or another relative who can step in appropriately. If he continues to refuse, consider speaking with a school counselor or family support professional
Sorry, but not only is that really sus it’s also CREEPY AS FUCK!!
Well your dad is one of those men that people don’t want their kids around. I bet money that there’s illegal shit on that phone. My first assumption would be that he’s catfishing as you but regardless you need to tell either your mom or somebody at school like a counselor or a teacher. If that doesn’t work… I’m not really sure honestly.