(22M) My girlfriend (21F) made Marshalls all call me over the intercom to force me to talk to her because I told her I needed a break. Sunday was a day that we were going to hang out, but she made last minute plans which I did not feel happy about. Also, her response was lacking, so I informed her that I was going to cool off by candle shopping at Marshalls, one of my favorite activities. I told her I’d talk to her later and drove to the store.
She did not like this. She began to call me. I simply put my phone in my pocket, but the calling did not stop. It was constant. After about 10 calls, I put my phone on do not disturb. She continued calling. It got to be around 25-30 calls by the time i reached the candle aisle. I began browsing through their selection when I heard the store’s music stop playing. They asked , “If anyone by the name of _(My Name)__ is here, please come to the front of the store.” They repeated this twice. I took out my phone and started recording because I could not believe she would do this because I communicated that I needed some time to myself, also as a guy, I felt like no one would believe me that she engaged in this type of behavior.
Turns out, I did not turn off my location. That is how she knew which store to call. I proceeded to the register with my candles and asked the cashier what happened with the all call. She asked me if I was the person they called for. She told me that a woman called looking for him and she sounded really irritate. I just said nah, I wouldn’t worry about it.
How do you draw the line with overstepping? Tracking location is one thing, but I’ve never been all called.
Does this mean she likes me -lol
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Don’t date crazy.
This is breakup worthy behavior.
She has zero respect for you.
The sooner you get out, the better.
Did you specifically use the word “break” when talking to her, or did you just say you were going to go cool off and look at candles?
Uh, no this is insane. Also kudos for the candle shopping 👏🏼 what a great way to unwind
If a man did this, we’d be calling him a stalker.
This is crazy behavior and would send me running
what is an ‘all call’?
This is unacceptable behavior. You know that.
This is unacceptable behavior from her. She’s actually crazy. Turn the break into a breakup, and block her.