hello! i was talking to one of my friends today about my therapist and how he’s not the best and i’m thinking of switching. for context, i have pretty bad relationship ocd and have talked to her before about how i worry my boyfriend’s going to leave me, etc. and that i’m one in a long string of many, even though he reassures me that that’s not the case/he loves me/etc. i told my therapist about this and that i worry he’s reassured other people in the same way and he said, “well yeah he probably has.” when saying this to my friend, she said, “yeah he has i’m sure.” she apologized because it upset me, but idk. my friends are strange about my relationship and it upsets me.
tl;dr: my friend agreed with my therapist that my boyfriend reassures me that he loves me and he probably did it to his exes, even when i know that’s not the case, and made me feel like she doesn’t think my boyfriend loves me.
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I think you need to love yourself and work on yourself.
I say this as someone who also has OCD.