So, after 6yrs we break up, just like that, no one really wants to spend time together anymore, we always get mad at each other. After two Days, since we still live together she starter like coocking for me etc trying to show how good of a partner she is, but on the other hand, she cake back to chatting with man she cheated on me with, installed apps like tinder etc. Like what is going on? BTW. We live together since im the only one working, so she dont/cant move yet..
Dont know, I think I just want to be over it but this behaviour totally fucks my mind
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**TL;DR;** : what the hell is such person doing/thinking? Like what? A little open relationship time every time we have an argument?
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She’s moved on, probably did a while ago, but needs to throw you a bone once and a while to keep a roof over her head.
Stringing you along so you keep paying her rent. Tell her to get a job or kick her out, you’re being taken advantage of.
She probably figured out that she didn’t actually have an exit plan from the relationship and is hoping that these little things are going to buy her time. I’d sit her down and have a conversation “now that we’re not together, these are the expectations I have so we can get along while you look for another place – I think X timeline is reasonable.”
Move any important valuables or papers you might have somewhere safe before that, maybe get a nanny cam and document the condition of things.
You two live together. Plenty of roommates will cook for each other, do stuff for each other, talk to each other, have normal interactions with each other… none of that is weird and is completely separate from “we are dating”. I don’t think any of that is weird… I think you are reading into stuff WAY too much. Someone being nice doesn’t mean they want to get back together or still love you… didn’t you break up?