My (24F) father (45M) has a picture of a furry in a sexual position as his tiktok profile picture.. How do I approach this??

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Oh my God I can’t stop laughing but also I’m almost crying from embarrassment from this.

So, my dad likes to send tiktoks to us all the time and at first his user had no picture or anything but them my sister sends me a picture of a notification tiktok sent her “This account sent you videos” or something like that and it’s a profile with a picture of a sexualized furry.

It took us a week to find out it was my dad. He sent me a video and tiktok snitched that it was his account lol.

Me and my sister were going to ignore it because what are we supposed to do? But then we realized that he probably sends videos to his friends and family so we should probably say something 😭

Any advice on how I approach this? This situation is so awkward because we’re not really close to dad either.

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  2. Glass_Confusion448 Avatar

    Your father knows and thinks it is funny.

    You don’t need to say anything.

  3. Piilootus Avatar

    Honestly I’d probably do something like “oh dad btw what do you think of my new profile picture on tiktok?” to kinda draw attention to the fact that others do see it without specifically mentioning it.

  4. Beruthiel999 Avatar

    Don’t say anything unless you’re prepared to deal with the possibility that your dad is a furry who knows exactly what he’s doing.

  5. DocSternau Avatar

    Your father is my age: He knows and does it on purpose because it’s funny. If you say something you’ll do exactly what he wants. Expect that he plays dumb.

  6. Mean_Environment4856 Avatar

    Your father is an adult and knows what he’s doing. Nothing to approach.

  7. EmphasisFair650 Avatar

    Mind ya business 🤣