TLDR; my bf thinks im a cheater but im not
My bf has been cheated on by past gfs and is extremely paranoid. He has always accused me of cheating. I never have. But he also says its cheating that I mentioned what type of pets I had as a kid to male coworker (I work at a petstore…). I told him I wont have personal conversations at work and I apologized for makes the comment in response to whatever the coworker said.
But he constantly calls me a h*e and says i never reassure him bc me getting frustrated/defensive just confirms to him that I’m guilty.
It’s causing resentment because I know that I would never do something like that. We have a child and I have always just wanted to be with him and repair our rocky relationship. so wtf am i supposed to do