UPDATE-
Thank you all for your messages. I tried holding back and waiting for him to get home to have a face to face conversation. However, by Monday, I hadn’t slept in several days, eaten or been able to think about anything else, and for my own sake, I called him to talk.
He started making excuse after excuse, as follows:
I didn’t know I spent that much I don’t remember sending them winky faces Maybe I was missing my wife Well it’s your fault we left on bad terms/it takes two
Then he said ‘delete my tik tok and we move on’ I said no, that changes nothing
After this I stopped listening and was pretty done with the conversation because I realised there was no accountability. When he comes back tomorrow I will be talking to him about separating and divorcing.
Thanks again!
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Backup of the post’s body: UPDATE-
Thank you all for your messages. I tried holding back and waiting for him to get home to have a face to face conversation. However, by Monday, I hadn’t slept in several days, eaten or been able to think about anything else, and for my own sake, I called him to talk.
He started making excuse after excuse, as follows:
I didn’t know I spent that much I don’t remember sending them winky faces Maybe I was missing my wife Well it’s your fault we left on bad terms/it takes two
Then he said ‘delete my tik tok and we move on’ I said no, that changes nothing
After this I stopped listening and was pretty done with the conversation because I realised there was no accountability. When he comes back tomorrow I will be talking to him about separating and divorcing.
Thanks again!
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what an incredibly dismissive response. i’m glad you’re seeing this for what it is. his addiction has just shifted to gambling in this very specific way. you are so young and deserve so much more.