We’ve been together for 3 years. There’s a recurring emotional issue in our relationship—I’m often the one initiating repair and deeper conversations. After feeling hurt again over the same topic, I decided not to reach out this time, just to see if he would take the initiative. It’s been 3 days and I haven’t heard from him.
I’m unsure how to interpret this silence. I don’t want to overreact, but it’s hard not to feel a bit distant and uncertain. I’m wondering whether this is a normal dynamic or a sign that something’s missing.
TL;DR:
I (27F) stepped back from my 3-year relationship with my boyfriend (23M) after a recurring emotional issue. It’s been 3 days and he hasn’t reached out. I’m not sure how to read his silence or what to expect next.
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hard to give advice without knowing specifics
maybe he’s just checked out of having “recurring emotional issues”