Hey all,
My partner and i have a pretty up and down relationship hence my insecurities – i am sure he has them too, been together for 3 years, me 28 female, him 32 male, in the past i have had a boundary that i dont want him liking other random girls pictures which he said he doesnt do anymore (i set this boundary because he is a public figure, gets alot of girls attention and i dont want him to be giving attention back)
Anyway, yesterday a random good looking girl followed him on instagram and liked 2 of his pictures, he in return didnt follow her back but went to her profile and liked a picture quite deep into her feed from a few months ago and im in a position where i dont know whether to bring it up or not, id like some opinions cause for me all i can see this as was she showed him interest and by doing that he showed sneaky interest back, not enough to call it cheating but enough to show the girl he noticed her and i just dont see why youd even bother..
TL;DR boyfriend shows attention back to women
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Definitely bring it up. You said you’ve specifically asked him not to and crossing your boundaries isn’t something to let slip, it will only lead to more boundary crossing in the future which will build resentment.