I saw my bfs Reddit search history on the app on 3 different occasions within the span of a week were all porn searches. First time I saw searches and the recent subreddits on the left hand side were all porn. His messages were warnings of changing his password. Second time the searches were all different but still porn and a warning his account had been permanently banned and all the messages were gone. Third time it was all new searches, I guess you can still search Reddit if you’re banned.
I confronted him because we have talked before about how this crosses a boundary for me when I saw his instagram feed was all naked girls and it made me feel shitty.
So when I confronted him he told me his account has been hacked. I have looked up if this is possible and I guess there are a lot of hackers doing things on NSFW content but I’m just so confused.
Could he have been hacked? If this is on a mobile app? If he’s banned, and has a message to change his password if he technically not logged in and still searching? How does Reddit work like this?
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Most likely he is just searching porn and jerking off.
What would be the point of someone hacking his account to look up porn? They can do that without a profile or simply make their own. His past should be enough to inform you about what’s going on here.
Simplest explanation and all. You know he’s doing it. It seems to be a boundary violation for you. There’s not much else to do here. He’s not respecting you.
Boundaries are meant to protect ourselves, not control others. Your “boundary” on porn use is for you yourself to leave the relationship, not make him stop.
You cant stop someone else from enjoying lewds
What you can do is leave them because it crosses your boundaries
You can’t control what this man watches and doesn’t. That’s pretty shitty that you go through his shit first of all, then you don’t even find him cheating or anything, just lookin at porn. Do better.
Girl hes not being hacked. Hackers do not hack an account, search up porn subs then leave. He’s searching it, jacking off then leaving , grow up