My best friend received an anonymous Facebook message from a weird account saying her husband is cheating on her. The person (assuming female) was extremely vague and just said check his deleted texts and that it was when he was working and a blonde haired female. No receipts, proof or locations. Could this be legit or just some random person? They deleted their account like right after the message. Could it be AI and randomly picked her account lol..I am hoping so. Has this happened to anyone? What was the outcome?
*Edit to say the “person” said it’s not with her but saw with their own eyes when he traveled to another work location within the past week. I guess he really did go to the other location twice in the last week. But still wouldn’t give specifics.
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on the chance that it is real, why would they instantly delete their account and not give more verifiable proof? I dont think its AI, could be someone trying to rouse up your best friend and her husband and wedge a divide between them. I wouldn’t just pawn it off though and instead just tell your friend to be mindful of interactions and see if anything is going on.
People are awful. He may have turned her down and decided to fuck with his life. Don’t trust a random person especially if they don’t have proof.
This isn’t proof of cheating, but it is a red flag. It doesn’t mean your friend’s husband is cheating, but it does mean your friend should be observant.
Scammers often try to blackmail a married guy by threatening to tell his wife that he’s been cheating. Its possible your friends husband was having a scammer attempting to blackmail him. The scammer asks for money or threatens to tell the guys wife he cheated if he doesn’t pay money. Is it possible this scenario played out with your friends husband? He ignored the scammers message so the scammer contacted her on Facebook. Just tell your friend its likely a scam.
I would still check deleted messages.
Check the messages
Sounds like a suspicious genetic message designed to cause trouble, maybe a future scam. If you are going to send something like this, why not add a few details specific to your husband? I think it’s BS.
Check the messages .. show up at his work for lunch… she needs to go into private detective mode to validate or prove nothing is going on.
Unless the anonymous message sender is a liar ~ hey that rhymes
Enough to look into but need more proof before accusing anyone of anything.
99% it’s someone trying to cause chaos and not real.
Check the messages.
I wish someone would have done this for me when my wife was cheating.
Treat it like the gift it is.
If she hasn’t told him about the message, she’s at an advantage. She should lay low and find information on her own.