Hi all. I’m 37 my husband is 34 and we’ve been together 17 years. A couple of years ago we were talking and I asked if there’s any fantasies he has that he hasn’t told me about. He made me first so I told him (don’t judge, being blindfolded and having group sex so I don’t know who is doing what). Once I did he told me his. He likes the thought of me being naked in front of other men in a casually nude kind of way, not strictly sexual. He was really embarrassed but I assured him it’s not weird and if he wants I’ll do it.
We started off very slowly. Webcam chat sites where I would just chat to people and then ask if they mind if I sat naked in front of them while we spoke. Then in the summer of 2023 we went on holiday to Spain and I sunbathed topless the whole holiday even walking up to the bar and the ice cream van with no top on (hundreds of women were not just me). Then in the summer of 2024 we went to France and went on a nudist beach where I was completely naked and even spoke to a few men who came to talk to us and with their permission my husband took photos of me sitting with these men.
We’ve had a bit of a heatwave here in the UK recently and my husband asked if we could have a bbq and invite a few of his friends round to watch the football. He then got a bit shy and asked if be willing to sunbathe topless in the garden while we had the bbq. I said yes that’s fine and I could see how happy he was. I created a WhatsApp group with the three friends and my husband and asked them what food and drink they would like getting. Day of the bbq arrives and it’s going to be 25 degrees. I sent a message to the WhatsApp group that morning saying “bring your swimming trunks I’ll get the hot tub up and running. I’ve got the sun loungers out so we can top up our tans while Neil cooks and just so you’re not startled when you get here I like to sunbathe topless so I get no tan lines. Is that ok? If not I’ll cover up”. They all said it was ok and my husband was beaming from ear to ear. They arrive and as I said I would be I’m sunbathing topless and get up to greet them and give them a hug. We then eat and I’m topless the whole time. The football is starting so we go inside and I stay topless and sit and watch the match with them and fetch them drinks and snacks if they want them and as the night goes on we end up in the hot tub together. No touching went on apart from hugs as they arrived and left.
My husband is very happy with how this happened but I have a niggling doubt in my mind about how we are going to “top” this. I don’t know what more I can do to make it just as or even more exciting next time without it getting physical. I would be fine with that if he is and he even said next time I should ask one of them to put sun cream on my back or offer to do theirs. Do I offer to bring a friend next time so there’s two topless women? Do I dress up in an outfit? I know my husband has said he’s enjoying it like this so do I follow his lead or take the initiative and go for more?