I (29F) met my boyfriend (29M) in my last year of grad school (2022) while living in Arizona. After I graduated I moved to California for my job and we did long distance for a year and a half. I got a job in Arizona moved back in October 2024 and my boyfriend got a job working nights from Wednesday to Sunday. I work days from Monday to Thursday. Thus, the only time we really have together is Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday nights if my boyfriend is able to wake up prior to me going to sleep (he sleeps during the day). I’m starting to get bothered with barely seeing him (especially since we did a year of long distance prior). It is starting to feel like we are roommates rather than in a relationship. I asked him if he will start looking for a new job soon and he has been giving me mixed answers and saying that the job market it rough (he works in supply chain so maybe it is, idk). Any advice/thoughts?
TL;DR: My boyfriend and I work different schedules and it is affecting our relationship