My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 years now and everytime we are with his friends he tends to ignore me. He’ll walk farther than me, he’ll exclude me out the circle or he just act like im not even there.
One time I took my dog on a trip with us and we had to go into this building and I wasn’t sure if my dog was allowed in. He had already walked ahead of me with his friends and entered the building I told him before we started wlaking over that I wasn’t sure if she was allowed in and I dont want to disrespect the property he kept insisting that it was okay. While walking my dog he and his friend entered the building before me. I stayed outside waiting to see if maybe he would ask if I can go in and nothing, I stayed outside for 5 minutes and decided to walk away. He came out later and was asking me why I didnt go in and i said because I wasn’t sure and I thought maybe you’d ask for me! All he said was i told you to go in so thats your fault.
Today, my boyfriend asked me to go on a road trip to a friend’s house to pick up some things and I agreed. We got here and I stayed in the car but because it became really hot I decided to step out and go next to him in his friends garage . I was standing next to him but as he was talking to his friends he ended up turning his back towards me and just kept talking to his friends In a circle while I stood outside of it. I felt uncomfortable so I asked if I can just wait back in the car with the AC. I dont think he realized how rude that was of him but I have mentioned to him multiple times that I dont like that he ignores me while with his friends especially if he invited me out. This has happened before and I dont know if im just being a baby but I see other couples and sometimes they’ll have their arms wrapped around their girls or they’ll have them included some how even if its like “oh she told me the other day” like idk include me somehow.
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If you were unsure if the dog was allowed in the building, why didn’t you explicitly ask your BF to find out for you? Why did you just stand there & wait?
You could have clearly communicated with him what you needed, but you didn’t. M
When you joined him in the garage, was he aware that you came in? Or did you just stand awkwardly to the side & not say anything? Cause it sounds like maybe he wasn’t even aware that you came in?
Leave him please. Is this how you want to live the rest of your life?