My bf broke up w me bc of a post i posted

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I need advice, my bf and i broke up bc i posted photos and he didnt like bc it was showing my thigh but i didnt know bc i thought i was pretty in that bc of my face i didnt mean to post that. He was at work and when he got off of work he started ignoring me and blocking me everywhere. I found a way to text him. When i told him i posted it bc he asked if i did post any of my photos that i showed him I said yes. And I told him if he was uncomfortable i will delete it, but he only find out i posted it now and it has been posted for over a week now. He tells me how I am disgusting and he doesn’t want to be with me anymore. I have never posted with my thigh showing so its my first time and i didnt really give it a lot of thought bc i thought my face was looking great so i wanted to post it. He tells me how guys have been cumming on my photos bc of my tighs. Which i didn’t think of. Now i am crying and begging him earlier to come back but he just ignores but I am a little calmed down now. And he also told me he will find a cute girl asian, which broke my heart. He said he doesn’t trust me anymore.

Comments

  1. wordwallah Avatar

    I’m sorry this happened. How long had you been together?

  2. NihiliusNemo Avatar

    He said you were “disgusting” because your upper leg was accidentally visible in a photograph? You have dodged a huge bullet, don’t get back together with him. Good partners don’t have bizarre, strict rules for their lovers.

  3. HoneyglowMisty Avatar

    Girl you dodged a bullet. If he’s calling you disgusting over a pic and saying stuff like that, that’s not love that’s control. Block him back and keep shining.

  4. pingbotwow Avatar

    Sounds like his problem not yours

  5. airag_aa Avatar

    From the story u r telling he would be planning to break up with you and he got the reason for that after he found about your post. So move on u will find someone better than him

  6. hothoneys Avatar

    Honestly, sounds like he’s projecting his insecurities.

  7. ProfessionalKoala416 Avatar

    Trash took it self out! Stop crying and remember you don’t have to accommodate your bf insecurity feelings by taking YOUR pic from YOUR page! Don’t let any boy control you!

  8. Common-Injury-Swan Avatar

    Cause and effect he is very immature for doing that but you also made a fairly intimate picture of yourself available online so I think he can be mad but to run away block you an so on isn’t right he should have talked to you what ever the end chose is and the things he said is just stupid
    Just my opinion

  9. Jumpy_Plastic_1367 Avatar

    I know what type of photo it is. I would’ve done the same ngl

  10. Dissent-Resist-Rebel Avatar
    1. It’s your body. Not his.
    2. It’s your social media. Not his.

    You aren’t property. You aren’t owned.

  11. Ih8ithere22 Avatar

    Girl wipe those tears. You are free!!!

  12. Gammas94 Avatar

    Be thankful. This guy will only get worse. Thank him for showing who he really is.