I (F22) just found out that my bf (M22) played a roblox game that has a s*x gameplay on it. He told me that it’s nothing serious and it’s just for the laughs since it’s funny to see two pixels doing it. In my case, it’s not okay but he keeps telling me that it’s not serious and I shouldn’t be angry because it’s just a roblox game and it’s not something to get angry with.
He says that he didn’t expect me to get mad since we played it once back then and that I should already be expecting that he did it with others as well. We did play it once but I didn’t expect that he did it with random strangers as well. He keeps saying “I thought you don’t mind” since I’ve played it with him back then.
Am I really getting mad for little reasons?
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I can see his side where it’s nothing serious and it is funny, because ”played a roblox game that has a sex gameplay on it” took me out immediately.
But, you’re also right to be uncomfortable with him doing sex roleplay with other people. Honestly, for me, I’d consider this a low-key form of cheating, even if it’s ”a joke”. (Of course, it’s different for everyone and depends on a lot of situations)
Here’s the thing. It doesn’t really matter if anyone else thinks it’s good reason to get mad. If it upsets you, it’s a boundary. Only you know whether your bf is doing it for the lulz or because he gets off on it, but either way you can end this relationship it at any time for any reason.
You can both be right. It upsets you, he thinks it’s not a big deal. This is basically a choice of how strongly you feel about the Roblox thing vs how much you want to be with your boyfriend