my boyfriend and I have been dating for more than 3 years . 2 nights ago We had a little disagreement that we didn’t even argue we just got mad I think where I got upset and we didn’t talk for the whole night and during that night where I tried to cuddling he would just move and the next day he was cold and distant towards me the whole day. At night I apologized and told him why I got upset and asking he would still ignoring me and cold, and told him he been distant. He said he was tired and that he just wanted to chill out before going to work today. But he was the same during night, didn’t cuddle me. I don’t know what to do… He never been like this before. Any advice?
TL;DR: my boyfriend has been cold towards me after we had a disagreement and I do not know what to do to fix it or communicate it.
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He sounds like an avoidant personality. If you marry him be prepared that he will not discuss his issues with you. Honestly it’s a red flag. You’ve already explained yourself and he’s still clamming up. Don’t expect him to change.