My boyfriend ( 35 m) and I (31 f) got into an argument a few days ago. I honestly dont remember what about. I have a horrible memory. During the argument though I let slip that I suspected he no longer loved me. He just stared at me, not immediately denying the fact. I pushed on and asked him if my suspicions were correct. After a long moments pause he simply said yes. I asked him how long he had felt this way. He said over a year. I asked him why he fell out of love. He said my bipolar was getting out of hand. He was constantly walking on egg shells with me. I knew that it was acting up, but I didn’t realize it was this bad. He never once set me down to try to talk this out. Never let me try to work on it. Just decided to stop loving me, without letting me fight for it. Now I dont know what to do from here. I dont want to break up, I love him more than I can express. I dont want to give up without a fight. What should I do?
My boyfriend of 14 years told me hr doesn’t love me
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Are you taking medication for your disorder?
He quit without a fight. That’s not love, that’s cowardice. You deserve someone who chooses you even in the storm.
Don’t date a teenager it’s illegal
Take that ian Gallagher attitude to get some lithium
My husband of 11 years (34 and 35) has been doing everything possible to help me overcome the obstacles caused by my bipolar. He loves me regardless of my outbursts and severe mood swings. He’s been a supportive rock. He and my son are the only reason I haven’t hurt myself a long time ago. He will not give up on me.
You fortunately are still young and can put this cowardly piece of shit ass boyfriend behind you and move on.
Real love doesn’t give up without a fight. Shit, my fight is a lifelong one and my husband nor I will give up on us.