Between us we have kids, pets & I have a sick Mom that I have to help, she’s elderly & confused. She doesn’t need round the clock care, she just needs help. I threw out discussing moving in because that’s where I’m at and he just doesn’t even seem ready start discussing what that would look like. The thing is, I know my answer on this, I don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with me. Yet, I’m not ready to totally break up. I feel like the ball is in his court and he deserves some time to digest this. I’m also pretty disappointed that he wasn’t even ready to star discussing it- it was my answer. I’ve started exploring an active group like pickle ball to join for some more social time on my own. He doesn’t know and I don’t think he’d even notice. I know this isn’t good. Just need some advice