My boyfriend of almost 4 years was flirting with a younger girl on Snapchat and asked her for nudes. She text me and told me. What do I do
My boyfriend of almost 4 years was flirting with a younger girl on Snapchat and asked her for nudes. She text me and told me. What do I do
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I would suggest dumping him
Why is he still the boyfriend?
how much younger was she?
Find another boyfriend gurl, you deserve better
Totally get how much that hurts. Props to the girl for being honest. You deserve better, take care of yourself first.
Dump him. Now.
get up and leave
Confront him, ask him why, then dump him. When you ask why… he will probably stammer or blame you accompanied by a stupid reason.
snapchat and a younger girl is a common factor for microcheating. 🙄 find a better man, break up with him.
dump him!!!!!!! what else would there even be to do??
Simple really, pick up your dignity and self respect, and leave.
Dump him
Leave him. He’s just going to do it again.
Do you have anything more to go on than the word of a stranger?
break up? why is this a question
Ex boyfriend, right?
He admitted it when I confronted him and was extremely apologetic. No pictures were shared but that’s not the point. She was 4 years younger
You leave. You block. You move on.
Sending this post to my gf so we have more juicy things to talk about.
Anyway, get a new bf and consider reporting him if he’s doing anything sus.
You break up with him.
How much “younger”? And why are you asking Reddit? Dump him, and if she’s under 18 tell him you’ll report him for soliciting porn from a minor.
If you think she won’t tell him she’s told you, then take your time to get your ducks in a row, financially and about accommodation.
Did she send you screen shots? Or is there other proof?
this is cheating !!! 100%
break up pls … u deserve a better person
trust me …sooner or later he will cheat on u and break ur hard .. he is a cheater by nature
I’ve commented already but I just wanted to say kudos to that young girl. That was a brave and mature thing to do.
Honey RUN
Walk away from him.
First of all, I’m really sorry you’re going through this, that kind of betrayal cuts deep. But the fact that a random girl had more respect for you than your own boyfriend tells you everything you need to know.
Don’t settle for someone who treats loyalty like an optional setting. You deserve way, way better.