TL;DR. I (18F) have been with my boyfriend (18M) almost 6 months. Until recently, he was very affectionate and always reassured me about his feelings — even cried in my arms 5 days ago saying he loves me and can’t lose me.
We hung out 2 days ago; it started awkward but then he cuddled, kissed me, said “I love you,” and acted loving like before. Since then, his texts feel different — shorter, less warm. For example, he used to say “Good morning baby” and “Goodnight baby I love you,” but now his messages are more basic and less affectionate.
We had a slightly emotional call 3 days ago where he sounded tired and maybe overwhelmed. I’ve tried giving him space, but I worry he’s drifting away.
He still wants to hang out and shows affection in person, but I can’t shake the feeling something changed. Friends say this is normal once the “honeymoon phase” fades, but I’m scared.
Is this normal relationship stuff or is he losing interest? Any advice would help.