my boyfriend said he got turned on by shouting at me

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Tl;DR literally the title

yeah, theres not much of a story. i (f19) was confused why my bf (m18) got so turned on one day, i was crying about my sister possibly dying and in bed so i asked if it was the crying? which i think would be preferable but he said it was actually the shouting he did when he came in my room and told me i was manipulating him by being upset and not speaking. im not sure how i feel about this. its just a bit weird. i normally would be into that too tbh but the whole context and situation just makes it weird and makes me feel so uncomfortable. and its confusing because he’s also like very sweet and not confrontational at all.

Comments

  1. dkopi Avatar

    There’s very little information here, but the whole situation sounds very unhealthy. What type of responses were you hoping to get or what type of advice would be helpful to you?

  2. clay-teeth Avatar

    Run. He thinks you’re manipulating him because you have emotions? He likes yelling at you? That guy is crazy.