my brothers girl came on to me while i was outside smoking a cig

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we were all drinking and i stepped out for a smoke, it was around 1am. so im standing there looking up at the sky pretty buzzed and out of nowhere i fee a hand grab my ass and as i turn she grabs the smoke from me annd takes a drag and blows it in my face… at this point everything happened so fast and out of nowhere all i can think to say is “oh hey”. She the gets like one inch from my face and i go to step backwards but she steps with mee and now my backs against the wall and shes pushing her crotch onto mine and she whispers, “where do you think your going”… “ah ah ah, your not going anywhere” and she takes another drag and blows it in my face again and hands me back my stoge as she goes to kneel down in front of me while trying to undo my belt, she not a bad looking woman but my loyaltys to my brother so while shes squatting down in front of me i push her backwards and she loses her balance and falls on her but and i walk back in the house and grab my keys and say ill be back as i hit the front door towards my car.. i dont know what to do now… and im not talking about having second thoughts about doing anything with her im talking about breaking my brothers heart and telling him what happened. stucjk in a tough spot, any advice from anyone who maybe had a similar experience would be good to hear some insight, thanks

Comments

  1. tinymoth- Avatar

    Tell your brother.

  2. Social-Worker-F41TH Avatar

    That’s really awful for your brother. You need to tell him.

  3. prollyfadedd Avatar

    look man. i completely understand you not wanting to hurt your brother. but at the end of the day its either you tell him now, or he gets cheated on down the line. she showed her true colors, i’d say its best to tell him before he finds out something actually happened with someone. the sooner the better. best of luck bro.

  4. saucetinonuuu Avatar

    A brother is real with you if you like the outcome or not. Not all relationships are functionally like this and I get that, but if someone that close to you can’t be honest with you and look out for you, who the fuck can?

    Tell him ASAP. Tell him you’re conflicted about wanting to tell him because it will hurt him and it’s bothering you.

  5. ChesapeakeBaySailor Avatar

    Two points- Stop smoking and tell your brother.

  6. mkstot Avatar

    Tell your bother. Explain why you left early. Tell him everything. If he flips at least when the relationship goes to shit, and it will, he will know you didn’t lie. As far as she goes, stay the fuck away from her.

  7. hot_ellaa Avatar

    you have to tell your brother

  8. obviouslytraumatized Avatar

    Tell your brother. He deserves to know so he doesn’t marry her. Trust me if there is any way for him to find out about what happened (maybe she confesses) it’s gonna look horrible if you weren’t honest.

  9. Hiesenberg007 Avatar

    Haven’t you heard that saying “BROS BEFORE HOES”.

    You need to inform your brother about this. it’s better that she looses that slut now rather then her cheating afterwards with someone else while she is with/married to your brother. You will only be helping your brother out by telling him about it.
    Don’t wait around and tell him fast the sooner you tell the better.

  10. DRangelfire Avatar

    Tell your brother before she concocts some crazy story that you came into her. Never trust women like this (and I’m a woman).

  11. wkrausmann Avatar

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  12. jaybird19899 Avatar

    She is for the streets.

  13. Darnelpottypants Avatar

    I read that wrong

  14. Money-Ad300 Avatar

    If it wasn’t you. Would be another man. Tell him.

  15. BugGlad5248 Avatar

    Did you drive away while drunk

  16. Ilikestuff9654 Avatar

    Whatever you decide, your a good brother!

  17. another_asian_name Avatar

    Dude, you got SA’d, this is enough for you to tell your brother.

  18. chunkyH2 Avatar

    You have money for smokes and booze, but not for a life changing $70 patent?

  19. TinyWabbit01 Avatar

    Punctuation? Gosh this is barely readable..

  20. ncjr591 Avatar

    Tell your brother right away, because if she makes up some bullshit story, he may believe her over you

  21. Excellent-Angle-4134 Avatar

    well my brothers coming over to hang out for a bit, im not sure how to go about it but my plan is to talk to him and let him know. Wish me luck.