It’s funny how life works sometimes. My closest friend right now the one I trust the most and spend the most time with actually started out as someone I couldn’t stand. When we first met we clashed on everything. We annoyed each other constantly, argued over stupid stuff and to be honest I thought there was no way we’d ever get along. But over time something shifted. The same things that used to bother me turned into things I started to respect. We got to know each other better and realized we weren’t that different and little by little the “enemy” vibe turned into real friendship. Now years later, I can’t even imagine life without this person which is still kind of crazy when I think back to how much I used to dislike him.
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Sometimes events or circumstances can lead people to have a new found mutual understanding for each other. A whole new perspective that can be seen leaving to further spiritual growth
honestly those kinds of friendships feel more earned like u went thru the test run already and proved yall can survive anything together
Vegeta X Goku type shit. These are some of the most valuable kind of friendships you’ll find.
Most of my friends started out with me not liking them. Either they were too loud, or obnoxious or rude. Turns out, they were the ying to my yang, or however that saying goes.
My first love was someone I initially hated lol
I don’t know why, I just couldn’t stand her. Then after a while, something changed.
Sometimes life is weird like that.
It was a long time ago, we ended up breaking up, but we remained good friends for a long time before losing contact because of life paths.
This…. This is what open truthful and honest dialogue accomplishes.
Very Happy for you! Not many people get to experience what you two have and that’s a shame.
I totally get it. I hated my husband’s guts until I got to know him. lol!
Sometimes the people that are the hardest to get to know are the ones that are the most worth knowing.