im a high school student and i have a cousin, hes now in secondary school. we are a big family so whenever we get tgt, all the cousins sleep in the same room. that cousin and I are usually the last ones to wake up, and he tries to touch me when theres nobody else in the room. i pretend to be asleep, i notice everything tho, i js dont know how to react. he touches my butt, my breasts, and one time he even tried to kiss me.
what should i do? im afraid he will have deviant thoughts and behaviors in the future. pls help.
my cousin is touching me
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You need to tell a trusted adult immediately, a parent, teacher, counselor, someone who can step in and keep you safe. What he’s doing is sexual abuse and it needs to stop now. Please don’t wait, your safety comes first always.
This is sexual assault. Please tell someone as it will escalate.
No need to be nice to him. No need to pretend to be asleep.
Anger is your friend here.
Tell your parents, if your parents will tell you it’s ok or call you a liar, tell your teacher a trusted one, usually a female is the better choice, if nothing works well, you have to confront him Infront of the whole family, and never be with him alone, if your parents leave you together go to your friends house or something, and threaten your parents to call the cops on him if they try to leave you with him.
Hope you find a solution and this mf goes to jail, it’s mainly a matter of whether your parents are the good type or not, heard some parents kicking their child out because they reported a relative to the police, hopefully your parents are on your side.
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That’s sexual assault. My cousin doesn’t the same. Please tell an adult.
Girl flip the fuck out next time
It’s unfortunate we share these experiences, I know how scary it feels to not know if or when it’ll escalate. You have to tell someone you trust.
Tell your dad and mom same time. If they don’t react, Maybe tell your teacher.